I have been going out with someone for over a year now and things are going okay. Only two of his female friends hate me, for no apparent reason. I tried to talk to them when i first met them and I was nice, as always :) but then when he told me that they didn't like me, I didn't spend too much effort on trying to talk to them, as they have been horrible to me. One friend sent me vulgar text messages from his phone and he didn't confront her about it. But when I saw one on the street and only said hello and that i had to go because I was late, she text him saying that I was stand offish.(I wasn't!) he text me immediately to see what was going on. but when they do something to me, he ignores it! is it wrong of me to want him to take my side one in a while? What should I do? I don't care if he is remains friends with them, I'm not an ultimatum type of person, but I don't want anything to do with them. oh he also always includes them in most of our plans. What should I do? anyone know?
2007-01-29 03:45:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well r u dating him his 2 friends , and if not then hell yeah, sounds like u dont like the way u r being treated by all 3 of them so what makes u stay in the relationship, cause it is not respect. move on there is so much more in life then to have to put up with that. say to urself that u r worth it right. u want respect and yes demand it or get out of it. maybe he will realize what he messed up on or maybe he wont.
2007-01-29 03:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi!,
I think its high time you stand up for your rights ,especially if you folks are going out, it is not always be you who should stand down for him and his friends that are very worth to him but not to him.
There are only 2 ways to do this, one confront him and tell him clearly it is you or his friends who are going to get priority , the second is something that u should do it the first one doesn't work out, in the sense he disagrees and tries to tell you how important his 2 friends are too him , the solution is simple dump him for your good, before you regret but i would say first try the 1st method out before this.
Because there are times when you should not feel that u did not try talking to him , otherwise go ahead and break up because he is not worth it and you deserve better ..
2007-01-29 11:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by Kiran 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt like u anymore and if u stick with him hell break his heart so u mise as well break his while u still can. also guys who hang out with lots of girls ALL the time should raise a red flag
2007-01-29 11:51:57 · answer #3 · answered by Squeaker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find a new boyfriend who is not controlled by people as this one is. you would be better off without him
2007-01-29 11:50:48 · answer #4 · answered by ken s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you do.. you move on because he doesn't like you either
2007-01-29 11:53:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋