Pretty bold of u to ask this question, so let me try to help!...Im 20 yrs old and just like u i have these moments when i desire to be with a girl, and like u i wish to be pure in Gods eyes and stay clean...So what i suggest is to try to read when u feel like this, also just try to pray and ask God for strenght!....We all have different weaknesses, its wise of u to awknowlege it, the devil will try to attack it so just stay strong!...Also if u have a special someone, try to stay in public places, and never in lonely places, like ur room or ur car or somethin; thats when this urges will hit strong so set ur mind to what u will do so that u dont have to make a decision when this occurs!...Stick with ur decision and God will be with u always!..i hope this was helpful!
2007-01-29 03:55:11
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answered by Luis G 1
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It is physically unhealthy for any male to refrain from orgasm. Toxins build up in the prostate that can lead to enlargement, cancer or death. You need to flush the fluids regularly. If your ethical code forbids sex with another person before marriage then masturbation is your only hope. It is also your obligation to your future wife to make sure you are healthy and live a long life with her.
2007-01-29 04:05:43
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answered by Murazor 6
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Jimmy Carter stated (in a Playboy interview of all places) that he lusted in his heart, (not for Rosalyn) and it was a sin.
You could become a peanut farmer and get married, or just date girls. Since the majority of them have relations before 19, you may need to change your perspective or all the girls will think you are square. Then your chances of getting lucky are really low.
2007-01-29 03:53:12
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answered by Devil in Details 3
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If you feel that you need to be married to engage in sex then I'd go with self stimulation. Just clean up after yourself.
2007-01-29 03:48:39
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answered by Anonymous
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what a shame that you've been conditioned to believe that sex is dirty, that even the natural act of thinking about sex is a sin. you've been mentally/emotionally abused by the religion you've been born into. escape!
2007-01-29 04:02:04
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answered by nebtet 6
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you are such a terrible liar, with DEEP mental problems! I think you need to grab a life and earn points elsewhere, somewhere where you may actually help another…pathetic!
2007-01-29 03:57:06
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answered by Anonymous
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I sure don't know what a "deep" Christian is.
But, with Gods help you can overcome anything.
2007-01-29 03:48:50
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answered by Kerilyn 7
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