2007-01-29 03:42:49 · 8 answers · asked by cutelovableme4 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do you feel about your long term relationship? Liking each other and loving each other are two different things. Do nyou want to be together? Do you desire to be together? What does your heart tell you as compared to your head? What do you think is the best thing you should do and if you do this what are the consequences if any? Things to ask yourself.
2007-01-29 03:49:44 · answer #1 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before my husband and I got married we had a long term relationship. He was up here with his family and I was down south in the southern part of our state for about 2 in a half months before I moved up here. We worked it out. If you and your boyfriend are commented and you two wanted to work it out then you can. All you have to do is have the will and really want to work it out. We had trust and a good communication. We'd talk on the phone when we could and it was hard on us both but we were going to stick it out. We loved each other to much to mess it up and wanted to be together. We knew if we were patient enough it would work itself out. If you and him feel the same way as we did then it'll work out but if you feel like you and him can't hand the long distance relationship and you feel like he'll cheat on you then you shouldn't do it. I never once thought that he was cheating on me. I had faith and trust in him and he did the same with me. If you and him don't have that then it won't work out. I hope this will help you out.
2007-01-29 11:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things:
1. Either drop the people you are with to pursue a relationship together (make a pro/con list)
2. Dont' do anything. Ask yourself if it is worth throwing away your long relationship?
2007-01-29 11:58:13 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever makes you happy, if that means breaking up then go for it, just be careful with those that you are seeing now.
I think the only thing you have to think of is if you remain with the person you are with now will you be happy with them and would you be happier with the other person.
2007-01-29 11:48:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should figure out if you like the person you are with or if you care for this new person more. Then just go with how you feel.
2007-01-29 11:53:57 · answer #5 · answered by jakethesnake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with you mates and follow your hearts. don't stay somewhere that is making you unhappy or that you know you could be happy else where. it is not fair to you or your mate. why would you want to live a lie? you only got one life to live. so go live it up.
2007-01-29 11:47:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW ABOUT MAKING UP UR MIND? THAT OUGHT TO SOLVE UR PROBLEM!
2007-01-29 11:46:41 · answer #7 · answered by NONE OF UR BIZ!!!!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats hot!
2007-01-29 11:46:47 · answer #8 · answered by Brian 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋