*We're only humans and made mistakes
but the love we have can also take
even the hardest of aches*
-referring to how we're not perfect but we still love each enough to work things out with each other and accept & appreciate differences
-yes we still together
2007-01-29 03:40:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont think it was a mistake at all. It shows that you're a level headed girl, who knows that mistakes happen and that in order to love...we must be able to forgive. What's more important than whether or not WE understand you, is...does HE? I hope he doesnt have some false image of love, that its all hearts and harps. Love takes work....but its VERY rewarding. Keep writing your thoughts down. Keep writing love notes. The effort alone speaks volumes about how you feel, regardless the words you choose to use!
2007-01-29 03:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by Soldier 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to question whether or not writing the letter was a mistake, then you have some doubt that the relationship will flourish. I say that simply because we both know that his thoughts would be: "Is she saying that our relationship is too rocky and won't last? Maybe I should call it quits now before things get too out of hand." If you don't have doubt, then you know that he will realize these things and continue to try to work it out.
I do commend you on communicating with him about it though. If your relationship is as strong as you say, then you have nothing to worry about.
"A letter is sometimes a great way to talk, when you just can't say the words."
2007-01-29 03:48:04 · answer #2 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think so. Of course I do not know in what way you are making this reference so this is just my opinion. To say what you said can be construed several ways but to someone who loves you I think it is saying something like this...."Sweetheart mistakes happen to all of us and sometimes these mistakes can cause pain and heartache but yet out love is strong enough I think to withstand these aches and pains because we care so much for each other and love each other so much."
2007-01-29 03:47:02 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first who made the mistake. Some are hard to forgive and ferget. But cheating you should never forgiver for once a cheater always a cheater maybe the person wont cheat right away but eventually lol they will again beleive me does a leopard change his spots no i dont think so
2007-01-29 03:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by brandy l23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think it was wrong. Do you two fight a lot? That is the first thing that came to mind. To him maybe could be a ploy to keep him or a simple apology. Or maybe nothing at all. Don't know enough details.
2007-01-29 04:11:21 · answer #5 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not a mistake, but don't be surprised if you have to explain it to him. Men are strange, they need things to be in black and white, they seem to have absolutely zero talent in reading things and understanding what you really mean. But, he may get it and you won't have to explain anything. Either way, it is not wrong to let him know how you are feeling.
2007-01-29 03:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by tryin4freedom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True feelings expressed truthfully are never a mistake
2007-01-29 03:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by fangtaiyang 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope.
beautiful words. why do you think it was a mistake?
If I received that kind of letter, I would be happy.
Dont think twice.good luck!
2007-01-29 03:46:40 · answer #8 · answered by earthlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that you are speaking from the heart. And that is the truth of your emotions. I really liked it!
2007-01-29 03:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by cOMpLiCaTeD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would it be a mistake? i think it was a nice, well thought poem saying how you feel. and if you're still together then he must have appreciated it. i think it was a good idea. good luck!
2007-01-29 03:44:59 · answer #10 · answered by Callie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋