my boyfriend ad i have been going out 4 a mth and he wont tell me wat is bothering him shold i worry
2007-01-29 03:37:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well maybe nothing is worrying him, he may be having one of those times when hes just fed up! I'd let him know that your always there for him if he needs to talk, cus he can trust you. You could see how it goes, see if he's fine in a week, if theres something up still just ask him again and explain its making you worry what it is! I wouldn't overly worry, just see how it goes, don't push him too hard to tell you, but just let him know your there for him, and in time he may tell you...but like I said it may be nothing!
2007-01-29 03:45:37 · answer #1 · answered by unscathed_sheep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONLY a month. Does he say "there is nothing bothering him"?
Maybe there is nothing bothering him. You don't know him well enough after a month to be able to tell if something is bothering him. Don't dwell on it. and don't read between lines because you could stir up something that does not need to be stirred up. Good luck and let time go it's course.
2007-01-29 03:45:43 · answer #2 · answered by Ghostly Ghost! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is troubling him and it is probably pretty big if he isn't sharing. But realize that the two of you have been together only for a month. What you can do is ask if he is alright. You can also remind him that you are always there for him if he ever wants to talk.
Good luck.
2007-01-29 03:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by joe19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes cause what he might be hiding might be about you so i would sit him down and tell him your there for him if he needs to talk and that your willing to try and help him with anything you have to instill your trust with him and show him you care and give him the chance to open up his world to you. try this and see good luck.
2007-01-29 03:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by MsDeelover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, u both need to be able to trust each other. u have been only going out a short time, so u need to be able to show him he can trust u with his feelings. Good luck!
2007-01-29 03:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by buddahbump 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That just goes to show what type of relationship with you have. This is not good
2007-01-29 03:43:06 · answer #6 · answered by Ans 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes cuz u dont kno and yall have been 2gether for a short time
2007-01-29 03:41:32 · answer #7 · answered by The H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they do that till they explode on you and you don't remember why but you are suppose to. if he has something to say that is the need to be said i guess he will say it. it is a form of mental abuse.
2007-01-29 03:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he won't open up now, he probaly never will. Get out before you get hurt.
2007-01-29 03:40:46 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys dont like to talk about their feelings so let him know that you are ther to talk when hes ready. he'll come to you when hes ready
2007-01-29 03:44:19 · answer #10 · answered by silver_princess16_03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋