what does sex feel like?

Question

im 12yrs old i was once asked out from a boy and he took me to his house and tried to have sex with me i dident want to do it and i dident do it but what does it feel like to do it if i did do it at my age what would i get called for it

Answer 1

Listen sweety.. You were dead right not to do it.. Although sex is a wonderful experience you really should be older before you attempt anything..

Answer 2

The expectation is that this might be a legitimate question. First, if you don't want to do DON'T EVER DO IT, until YOU want to. Even when you are old and gray keep that advice close. Second, you are physically just too young to do it, tab A will have a difficult time slipping into slot B. Third, everyone's description will be different. Some people will tell you it is the greatest thrill possible, but then fighter pilots will tell you that is better than sex. Have a blast.

Answer 3

At your age you shouldn't even be thinking about sex.. but since you are I say "stay away!" .. it complicates life.. and the last thing you want is to get pregnant at 12 years old .. It CAN happen .. One of my friends had to go through that. My advice for you is to not do it until you feel absolutely comfortable. Rumours fly quickly and you do not want everyone calling you a s - l - u - t, etc. Just think of it this way.. if you are ready to deal with the consiquences (STD's .. Pregnancy .. etc.) then go for it. But at your age.. stick to shopping and playing.. like all the other 12 year olds. And chances are.. for the first time of sex.. it will be messy and it will hurt. Expect a lot of blood (the hymen should break) .. and it is just not very enjoyable. Not trying to scare you off.. but you wanted the truth.. so I've just given it to you.

Answer 4

Its a wonderfull thing - when you are ready for it. at 12 years old i would strongly advise that you do not find out. Not only is it a really bad idea at your age but the consequenses could be very serious! How old was the boy who wanted to sleep with you? he could end up ruining his life if anyone was to know about this. I would leave it a few years (untill you 16 in england) before you discover this.

Answer 5

Everyone else is right, you are way too young to have sex. You need to wait until its going to be special for you, not because you've been pressurised into it.

If you did do it now, you'd be called "the victim" because they boy would be breaking the law and could get into a lot of trouble.

If you have questions about this stuff and can't talk to your parents then give Childline a call, they will be able to point you in the right direction.

Answer 6

sex isn't just something to one day just wake up and be like I'm gonna go do it you have to be deeply intimate with the person
after you first time you get somewhat emotionally attached to that person and what if that's all he wants was to **** you one time you gonna be stuck going back for more every time
sweetie i was 12yrs when i lost mine and its not as good as you think better to wait till you older and know more about it
like if he doesn't have a condom ... and says he'll pull out before he cums don't do it especially that inexperienced that how you become pregnant best thing is just to wait till your older and stay way from that guy,........stick to the truth or dare games and barbies as dumb as it sounds

Answer 7

It's nice with someone you're in love with, and who loves you, but also can be painful at first. If you do it with someone who doesn't care for you, it can make you feel awful, and you will probably regret it, because you've given him something special and he didn't appreciate it. Wait until you are in a serious relationship, and it feels 'right', otherwise it feels like wearing your prom dress to the supermarket - it's for a special occasion!

At 12 I don't think you're meant to be coping with these sorts of decisions and feelings - they are for older people.

Girls who sleep around get called horrible names by other girls and by boys too; boys don't - a sad fact of life.

Answer 8

hi...am 18 and i've never had sex..am not sure it's right for you to venture into sex at such a young age....i'd say wait until you are older like 18yrs or even more...am sure sex will be more pleasurable at that age..because you will have developed and your body would be more accustomed to having sex...and i think you'll also feel less guilty when you are older....imagine going home after you've had sex and your mum looks at you funny....L.O.L....just wait a few more years then you'll know for yourself whether it feels nice or if it's something you'd rather wait a few more years to do......by the way if the guy was older and wanted to sleep with you..i think it's best you avoid him for a while....maybe until you are ready for sex.....okay hun...

Answer 9

you were right to say no cuz you didn't want to do it

before you even consider it, learn about condoms and boys and aids and pregancy and emotional heartbreak

get a few pages of info on each of those topics I think

then if and when you decide you really love and trust somebody

then go see a movie and hold hands, no kissing on the first date though

when you do it right, its the best thing you feel, when you do it wrong its not so good or even hellish

Answer 10

I am concerned with the fact that at your young age you are already contemplateing having sex, and at your young age you are not prepared to make decisions such as this. You need the advice and guidance from an adult such as your parents. Go to them and talk about your concerns and hopefully you will be able to get your answers.

Answer 11

My dear, let me talk to you as a brother and as a father, u see you are to young to know about sex but thank God that you picked up the courage to ask.What i think you should do now is to face your studies,come out in flying colours,get a good job and marry the man of your dream then if you wish to have sex all through the day fine no policeman will arrest you for that.Take care of yourself!