To all those of u who are already married were u a virgin.
2007-01-29 03:29:16 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes I am.
I have a boyfriend of almost a year that I am completely in love with. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...
2007-01-29 03:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 7⤊ 3⤋
No.
I lost my virginity at 16, and got married at 45 for the first time. Looking back, I wish I could have kept it until my first engagement at 18... things might have been different. On the other hand, I would never have met my current bride.
I think it is admirable for those who want to wait, though.
2007-01-29 03:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't and wow am I glad! It was not the issue of wanting to wait for having sex, it was whether my love and I had mutual sexual chemistry. Love doesn't guarantee it. The last time and place I wanted to find that out if we were sexually compatible was on my wedding night. Imagine getting into bed that night and not really knowing whether you match or not. You can't talk about it before hand.
For me, it was not a morality issue and I respect those who do not have sex before marriage on those grounds. I have met a number of couples who did wait and while they love each other, they are duds between the sheets.
2007-01-29 03:48:44 · answer #3 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What wedding night? You act as if I'm going to get married at all.
2007-01-29 05:16:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Already married, wasn't a virgin when I married....and don't feel bad about it at all.
2007-01-29 03:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by Qwyrx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's my plan...but you can't predict the future and what you will end up doing. I say if you love them and you're ready go for it because honestly who waits until marriage anymore? I WANT TO don't get me wrong. But hey everything happens for a reason!...
Let me ask you a question, do you expect them to be a virgin too?-If so GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-29 03:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by forever_his 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No I wasn't. I'd hate to have discovered on my wedding night that my new husband was puny in the tackle department. Imagine having to put up with that over decades of marriage. No way.
2007-01-29 03:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am getting married this year, and no I'm not a virgin.
I think sexual compatibility is very important to a relationship, and I don't think I'd be able to marry someone without knowing.
2007-01-29 03:33:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope - I haven't been a virgin for a long long long time, I've never been married and I doubt I'll ever get married. So all of my past, present and future sex will be premarital.
2007-01-29 03:33:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think i'll wait...quite frankly i don't see the need for me to lose it now...and besides that my friend and i made a pact not to have sex until our wedding nights...i told her i will kiss her feet infront of everyone at her wedding if she keeps the pact...she'll do the same for me....i just hope the guy who deflowers me is not some kind of sleaze ball....i'll tell you if my plans change....keep in touch....
2007-01-29 03:56:01 · answer #10 · answered by maverick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
married and was not a virgin om my wedding day nor did i lose it to my hubby
on the same note hes wast either and he didnt lose it to me
so no i dont regret it
2007-01-29 03:32:55 · answer #11 · answered by silver_princess16_03 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋