other for about 8 months. but we still remained in contact with each other and have/had feelings for each other. we would hang out sometimes and he was the person i went to for help with things. although he still acted cold towards me for reasons and seemed like at times he wanted me not around and times he did. which i was confused, angry and hurt. just recently we had a talk and he asked some questions about things that i 've done i told him yes, i met someone and we had relations. he was upset and asked me more questions about it. now ladies when i went to his apt. i saw evidence of him sleeping with some. so now i ask him questions he made up many exuces and did tell me or confess to what he did even after i told him what i did. ok, he tells me 5 days later that yes he did something. the day i had to go home several towns away to vist my family and 7 days b/f my 25th birthday. i am extremely hurt that he lied for a whole 1month to me. i can not forgive him and dont wan
2007-01-29 03:09:02 · 6 answers · asked by caramelbunny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well your first statement about sums everything up.
Neither of you have been committed to each other. If there is no commitment then no feelings should be hurt. If you both have feelings for each other then stop messing around and get committed to each other. If not then you need to sever any ties you have otherwise you will both continue to hurt each-other.
2007-01-29 03:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by cmssko 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend, If u aren't committed to this guy then why do u hang out with him?. Just close up his relationship and move on. Most men deny a lot, they tell lies at first and try to make it up but telling more. Most of them are opportunists.
And, next time when u try to get with someone , make sure he 's honest ,so u wont feel hurt!
2007-01-29 03:17:00 · answer #2 · answered by Princess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hunny you must not dwell over this, why put yourself through this bullcrap, like seriously
my exboyfriend cheated on me one two many times, we are nutures and we forgive, its in our female contract, we are to emotional, and worrie to much.
but now is not the time to feel lost in all this
obviously he wants nothing to do with you if he goes off getting his dick wet, right?
move the hell on, you like everyone else dont need stress like this in our daily lives, keep yourself bussy, and stop looking for love in the wrong person, when he has none for you.
im not tring to be brash or arrogent nor mean i just dont like aholes, the world has toooooooooo many of them. ok hun.
and i dont like seeing women even men stress over someone who has no intentions of having a relationship with them.
and for you to feel guilty over an intamite night, no need coz YOU TWO ARINT TOGETHER thats how you make it sound, he did the exact same hunny and you know it.
there is no room for forgiveness you need to give him up and let go of him.
obviosly there is nothing left for the both of you to share soooooooo just forget him, and forget even knowing he was apart of your life that way, just as a relations friend ok
good luck and hope all goes well hun
2007-01-29 03:29:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Move on. You deserve respect. He obviously does not respect you.
2007-01-29 03:15:01 · answer #4 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, sweetie. he is not the right one for you.
really. it shouldn't be this difficult.
best wishes to you.
2007-01-29 03:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by lifeisagift 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am missing the question????
2007-01-29 03:15:31 · answer #6 · answered by melimel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋