I am 18 in san antonio my name is priscilla I have chances to get with guys but thier always thinking that they are players or pimps or ballers when really they are just wanna bes. they have no job no house no car hardly a life and dont know how to show thier girl that they love her.
2007-01-29 02:35:19 · 17 answers · asked by *Josephs Girlfriend*( Por Vida!) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your so young give it time you will find the one
there is somenody out there for everyone
don't settle for less than what you want
and its like my mom told me when i asked how will i know; she told me "you'll just know"
take it slow enjoy your life got to collage when its time for you to meet the one you'll meet him and you will just know that hes the one
2007-01-29 02:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by silver_princess16_03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, first of all, do you want a player/pimp/baller? Would you be OK with someone who didn't have a job, house, or car if they were in college?
Second, yes. Of course there's a guy out there for you. Just because you can't find him now doesn't mean you don't have a few years to do that. I don't have a boyfriend, and my last couple were pretty crappy boyfriends, but I'm not worried. It's hard to date in my school. Most of the guys there prefer men. That's not my fault, is it?
Basically, if you have true friends, true love isn't that far away. My case:
Most people basically see me as very talented and respectable, but an oddball. But those who do understand me can't get enough. Do you know how long it's taken me just to find true friends? Every year, I come closer and closer, but this year, it finally seemed to work. It's been the same way with guys; I'm just not there yet.
Good luck!
2007-01-29 10:55:05 · answer #2 · answered by bisous148 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there is a guy out there for you. You are so young, take your time. Don't get into a relationship that you're not comfortable with. The right man will come your way and when he does, you'll know it!!! For me, it's when you aren't looking for Mr. Right when he comes along. I found the man that I thought I'd be with for a long time, he showed me how to have fun and now he's gone. He got a deadly disease and I stuck by him. Am hurting very badly, not just cuz I lost him but he left me nothing in return. I took care of him for 6 months and received nothing. Make sure you aren't the only giver.
2007-01-29 10:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by Donna D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U didn't tell much abt you ?
when u expect a car, house, settled life. Is it not just fair that they expect something from you ? What do you have ? Experience in life ? Can cook well ? Can take care of kids ? Can satisfy your man ? You don't have them all now at 18, right ?
2007-01-29 10:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you are ready for the kind of guy that has all that stuff you've mentioned? The truth is, you are still young for a serious relationship because such a thing requires far greater responsibility from you. For a start, find an honest and fair one.
2007-01-29 10:46:31 · answer #5 · answered by Marko C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly you just has got to stop looking... enjoy your life because you are young .... if you get stuck with one person then i dont wrk out then another than same thing happens ur wastin some precious time ... instead date getr to knw some ppl. whoever you get along with .... and doesnt **** up that much should deserve a chance... but never take things to serious always have a second plan...set some limits and requirements ... whatever you do don't settle for less but don't expct perfection either...promise that their is somebody fro you... stop looking for love because love will find you instead look for friendship and some good statusious
2007-01-29 10:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by gina g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 is young. You still got a long way more before you meet decent mature guys I guess. The wannabes are probably still living in their made believe worlds they want to be in. But i guess time and life experiences will make them more down to earth. Just enjoy life and it will come
2007-01-29 10:39:01 · answer #7 · answered by littlepurplebugz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 18 you shouldn't even be bothered with this rif-raf. you are young and your whole life is ahead of you. get into your education and if its going to happen it will. don't sweat the small stuff you have plenty of time. during this time without somebody you can work on who you are, what you want out of life. good luck!
2007-01-29 11:42:16 · answer #8 · answered by toyloy27 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i completely understand you... I ask myself that question all the time. But there is more to life than just seeking a guy out.
I believe that there is that someone for everyone. it takes time though. so dont rush. enjoy life!
2007-01-29 10:40:14 · answer #9 · answered by charlea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i don't know i'm wondering the same thing they all come off as nice until u figure out that they don't like u for u but only for sex
2007-01-29 10:39:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋