Ok so thurs this dude that i been kickin it wit..he real koo n sweet n nice n all..jus real laid bak n down 2 earth..tha type i like...but..he copmes wit a package...he has a 1 yrs old babyguh...we both kinda yung..him b'n 18 n me b'n 16...he been tryna get wit me..n all..but i kno im not ready 2 get wit ne1 quite yet...n so..we most likely gon end up 2getha but its jus tha thing of him havin a baby n he says him n his babymama koo or w/e..i think thats good 4 tha baby n all but im not sure...we havent realy talked on a more serious level yet..but we will..but im jus not sure..yall think i should look past him havin a baby n jus get wit him?...or should i tell him 2 b friends ONLY n nuthin more...a lil help plz..n thanks!
2007-01-29 02:33:45 · 11 answers · asked by BabyGirl21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you care for this man in a deep emotional level then you must care for the child as well. That doesn't mean you have to raise the child, but before you make a decision, how does he treat the child?Does he care for it, spend time with his child and nuture his relationship with his child? Does he treat the mother of his child with care and provide child support or help with the responsibilty of this child? You will find your answers in the level in which he handles his child and his responsabilties. If he doesn't show the proper care in this area of his life, he will not provide you with the same care either.
If you are ready for the man, then you must be ready for the child too. Ask yourself what kind of future will you have with this guy.
2007-01-29 02:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by LisaLou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your main question is what should I do. The rest? I can't understand any of it. Exactly what language are you writing?
I think what you should do is pay more attention in school. Learn to write English. Get some language skills that will help you in life, so you can get a job, and not become some teenage mother on welfare.
Other than that, you are basically answering your own question. It sounds like you have made up your mind, and are going to start some sort of relationship with this person, regardless of any other circumstances. Bad choice, but, yours to make.
Long Live Jambi
2007-01-29 10:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh? well, what i comprehended from that is baby mama drama and a baby's daddy dating or something.
stay away if you don't feel comfortable with the concept he has a baby.
i know a single dad that is really really really a great dad and he has a hard time dating cuz of his son he knows that it's not just him they are dating but his son as well.
he's also 25 and his son is 3 so he's a little older than 18. he was also married when he had his son which makes it harder to date after a divorce.
if you aren't ready then don't be with him for him.
2007-01-29 10:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by Back*To*Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dun get involved in baby momma drama. my sis is goin thru it. her bf got a baby nd she preg wit his baby. he loves my sis not the gurl but she gets shiiiit from the gurl all the time. b careful
2007-01-29 10:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from baby mama Drama .. the baby is not the problem but the mom will b
2007-01-29 10:38:30 · answer #5 · answered by gina g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice story. but I am a guy so this will be weird, will i would leave a girl if they had a baby. where there partner. that just me
2007-01-29 10:40:58 · answer #6 · answered by nipplesandlicks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're both young...and decisions ure makin now.....most probably u'll end up regrettin them...16-18...that age range...still not ole enough to fall into committment...even if u end up together..still...with time...it'll all come clear now..
coz now wat ure seein is this dude ure so into....lovin..all tht..kool yea..but..try picturin it after all tht is done...then wat?...settlin with someone has a whole lot to do than just mutual attraction..
just b wise...
2007-01-29 10:40:26 · answer #7 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After reading this, I can honestly say that you are not ready for this relationship.
Concentrate your efforts in school.
2007-01-29 10:38:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh, I can't even read that crap! Learn how to write/talk and try that again!
2007-01-29 10:39:09 · answer #9 · answered by Treyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No habla ebonics
2007-01-29 10:38:47 · answer #10 · answered by gamblin man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋