Okay im 15 and my boyfriend is 17. We have been going out for 4 months now. We are like the perfect couple and i love him more than anything. We got in to our first fight this weekend. He lied to me about something stupid but it was supposed to be a joke. Usually i wouldnt have gotten mad but i just wasnt in the best mood and some friends were saying we were spending too much time together. So I was just trying to have some fun at the mall with one of my friends but it was really boring up there so i called one of my x-boyfriend/ friend to meet us up there which happens to also be one of my boyfriends friends. We just walked around as friends and the only thing it led to was a promise to call when i got home. Which i did. Should i tell my boyfriend? Was that wrong of me?
2007-01-29 02:27:27 · 10 answers · asked by CountryGirlygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I were your boyfriend and I found out later, I'd think you had something to hide and that would be the end of it. Better tell him.
And you're 15. Dating should be fun. Quit creating drama.
2007-01-29 02:35:44 · answer #1 · answered by penhead72 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong at all if you tell your bf about it, cause if you tell him then he will see that you have nothing to hide. But if you don't tell and he finds out about it later on, he will think that you did something behind his back.
I think the best thing would be just to show him this question that you posted here, then he will understand it's nothing, and he will also see that you value your relationship with him, since you are here asking this question, because it shows that you want to do the right thing, even being so young i think it is very mature of you! You are prepared to get the advice of other people on this, to make sure you do the right thing which is a great thing!
2007-01-29 10:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by Instant Problemsolver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you want him to call one of his ex-girlfriends to meet up with him and his friends wherever? With relationships, if you want them truly to work and you have all the other stuff - trust, commitment, love - then all you have to remember is it's all about how you make each other feel. Think about how you would feel if he did the same thing to you. It will help you make better decisions if you put yourself in the other person's shoes. I wouldn't bother stirring the pot on this situation. But just remember for the future - you're questioning yourself - so I think you know the answer already! :)
2007-01-29 10:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by A B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell ur boyfriend because the best thing to keep a relationship going is to always be honest--i know this from experience. and u r only 15--why are you not in school today is monday and no holiday-maybe if u go to school you will be more educated to make you're own desicions about life.
2007-01-29 10:42:29 · answer #4 · answered by Jasm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spending time with a friend is okay. Just be sure you let your BF know that's all it was. If he is any kind of guy, he will be okay with it.
2007-01-29 10:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by Tori M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wasn't wrong of you but i hope you didn't ask your ex to join you at the mall as an act of revenge your your b/f for lying to you over somrthing stupid
2007-01-29 10:34:32 · answer #6 · answered by precious_52803 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should for the fact that if it his friend than it shouldn't matter you said you called one of your exboyfriend's friend. which is also your boyfriend's friend. so why not just call him your boyfriend's friend and bam no more problem. no more exboyfriend in the equation......
2007-01-29 10:38:02 · answer #7 · answered by wesblackdodge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no b/c u didn't have sex with him or anything and u two are just friends. So u don't need to tell ur bf.
2007-01-29 10:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by sweety_8620 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah tell your boyfriend so he doesnt find out from someone else.
2007-01-29 10:33:16 · answer #9 · answered by nikogal2006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong just don't let it ruin u
2007-01-29 10:32:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋