we've been dating for almost two months we have not kissed yet but he wants to and i do to i've been teasing him quite a bit but he wants me to treat him like a boyfriend and i want to too what should i do
2007-01-29 01:57:07 · 11 answers · asked by life aint a fary tale 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just kiss him.
Give him the little push he needs.
He is prob just scared to take the next step.
2007-02-05 20:49:17 · answer #1 · answered by helpmeidk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Fairy tale,
This is Katt, I think that maybe in some ways, you are afraid that he might want more from you later and that you are not ready for.. I you really do like this guy, I would talk with him about how you feel and try to find a comfortable zone for both of you... Just do not lose yourself in being pressure about anything by no one if you are not ready.. Taking steps to a relationship though is really how the bond gets strong with you too.
When you truly love someone, you want to make each other feel wanted, respected and so on..
Good luck with it all though.. Just hope that you guys can work it out cos it does sound as if he loves you.. KATT
2007-02-06 09:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he is just trying to get you to have sex with him. Or kiss him. Kissing is o.k. as long as you are old enough. But wait to have sex. No sense in hurrying. You have plenty of time. If you really want to treat him like a "boyfriend" then spend time alone with just him. Go on dates. Have him meet your family and friends. Show him you think he is special WITHOUT having sex with him. You should set up relationship rules to guide you. Such as: 1. no sex until___________ 2. kissing after ______ time . You need to put your foot down. It isn't always about what He wants it is about what you want. Remember, don't ever do anything that makes you uncomfortable. You can always say no. Even if you say yes, you can at any time change your mind. Good luck!
2007-02-06 10:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by elliemay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to the comment about having sex with him, save that, it is very special, but you could hold his hand, and give him a sweet kiss on the cheek, or a little more, just make sure that you desire to treat him how he wants doesn't let you give up what you aren't ready for. Some boys will push for intimacy, but don't give in until you are ready.
2007-02-06 01:03:56 · answer #4 · answered by chelsie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! Depends on how old you are- but you sound young, so I'll go for that type of answer. Start with a simple kiss on the cheek when you see him (it can move to more when you're comfortable with each other) and let him hold your hand. Try and let things move on naturally, don't push it or force it.
2007-01-29 11:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by Girly girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hiya
you sound very young, you will know when the time is right for your first real kiss it will feel like electric running through your body and you will be walking on air for days. just make sure tat you are ready and don't be pushed into doing anything you don't feel comfortable doing good luck and i hope you enjoy it as much as i did when i had my first kiss
2007-02-06 10:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by kimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and get yourselves a pint of Ben & Jerry's Ice Cream and a single spoon to share. I can almost guarantee that you will be kising before you finish the pint!
2007-02-06 05:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, hopefully you show him more affection than your guy friends. Why don't you just kiss him? If you don't wanna kiss him, then you apparently aren't ready to have him as a boyfriend.
2007-02-06 07:43:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-06 03:41:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you should try it out.if u rle feel the magic, then u will kno what to do.
2007-02-06 08:28:53 · answer #10 · answered by i ♥ jimmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋