i asked this already, but it got messed up and posted twice, please help me.. im going crazy.?

Question

okay, so this boy i like right, i was at his house the other night, and we were watching movies and kissing and cuddleing and he held me in his arms like all night and just sat there and kissed my forehead and like we were acctually dating, and it was that feeling you get like the butterflies in your stomach and all that, and i've been played b4, i know how that feels...and this wasn't that feeling and i mean i felt like we were acctually together, and prior to that night he had told me that he had liked me as long as i have liked him (since 7th grade) which would be 4 years now. and he said that he wanted to go out and stuff.. so i was talking to him last night, and he was really drunk from like 16 shots and really high from quite a few blunts, and he said that he didn't like me and didn't want to go out anymore, but he also talked to my ex who is quite intimidating and was pretty mad at me for dumping him...do i listen to him, or do i ask him again when he is sober???

Answer 1

Well, he drinks and does drugs, so you would be better off to forget this guy and move on with your life. I would spend some time learning how to properly punctuate my sentences if I were you.


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Answer 2

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Answer 3

I'm sorry he is a lost cause, when people are really drunk or high their true selves come out and speak the truth, BUT there could be something causeing him to say something, but it's bad, I'm guessing that there is another girl that he is fooling around with like actually haveing sex with, and your just "The Other One" and he would probably try to have sex with you, even if you give him the slightest hint that you want sex, this guy would go for it. So be careful with him, ask some friends around and see if he is fooling with another girl. If you need any more help contact me just click on me.
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Answer 4

I would strongly suggest finding someone who isn't drunk or high to begin with. People lose inhibitions and their true self comes out when under the influence of drugs or alcohol. If you are looking for someone who wil actually care for you, try looking somewhere other then the party scene. Take it from a hospital worker when I say I know where those guys end up anyway.

Answer 5

Defenatly talk to him when he is sober. Wait a few days and see what happens. Maybe he just got scared by your ex and gave in to what ur ex wanted. Ask him to be compltetly honest with you though. If he is just useing you or something its best that you find out now. Good luck

Answer 6

well i deff kno what you mean i have been played b4 too...and it sucks and thats how i feel about my boyfriend...but i would deff talk to him when he is sober.dont let him get you down by saying that...trust me i kno how guys talk when they are drunk...well its not jus guys its everyone.lol..but yea jus talsk to him when he is sober and see what he says and if he really does feel that way then move on so you dont get hurt....and it will be hard b/c thats why i havent left my boyfriend...me and him have liked each other since i was in 4 grade and im almost 18 now....so yea dont let him play head games..

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Answer 7

Drinking is bad enough, but there is the case here of being underage! You better evaluate what you like in a guy or you will have a rough road. I don't mean to sound ugly, but I've seen too many cases like this before.

Answer 8

I think that maybe it was kind of the truth but you can never tell when talking to someone who is drunk. Ask him again about it when he isn't drunk and don't make a big deal about it because you don't want a guilty wrong answer.

Answer 9

Drugs lead to a abusive house hold... mostly when its the male taking them... if you get together and get married and have kids.. you'll find youslef running for your life trying everyhting you can to keep your kids safe... I know love is hard to let go and its not just that easy but i'm telling you now before its to late.... get out of this sitchuation before it gets to hard to.
trust me.. I've been were you are... and i nearly got killed. don't make that mistake.. cuz you might not get the chance to fix it

I'm praying for you

Answer 10

From they way you described him, I wouldn't want to go out with him regardless. If he drinks and drugs, how is that appealing? Despite that fact that he was wasted, I wouldn't give him the time of day. I'm sure that there are better pospects then this guy. Find somebody else.