yesh....my bf is so sweet and loving but at time i have no idea what he wants i try my best to make him happy but he doesnt seem like he cares for me anymore.....over countless time i caught him kissing and hugging other girls,i asked him whats going on but he said he only does that stuff to make them happy..... and he know that for some reason people like to flirt with me for no reason causing alot of trouble he gets very upset and will fight to protect me he begs me to stay and not leave and that he loves me everytime a attempt to leave him.he's been with me for a long time have no idea what to do my ((dragonlight..yes his nickname)) means everything to me am i wrong to stay with him or should i leave him?
2007-01-29 01:51:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let me get this right....
he flirts, kisses and hugs other girls... but when a guy flirts with you he flys off the handle???
if thats the case then it boild down to trust, and he dosnt trust you because of what he gets up to himself!!!! he knows how easy it is for him to "cheat" so believes you would too....
get out!
2007-01-29 01:57:06 · answer #1 · answered by merrpet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if he's kissing other girls....
his priorities are not in the right place.
It's hard, because there are so many feelings attached, but you really need to leave this guy, you deserve so much better. He should be trying to make YOU happy, not any other girl.
I know it's easy for someone to sit here and tell you to leave him, when you have so many feelings and history with this guy...but he doesnt sound very trustworthy.
You never know who comes out of the woodwork when you suddenly become single again.
2007-01-29 01:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by Mellissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He says that he's kissing/hugging other girls to make them happy, yet you can't seem to do anything to make him happy? Leave him. He is no good for you. He is taking advantage of you. Don't think that because he begs you to stay, or get jealous, that means he loves you. I think he is using you, and will continue to do so if you let him. I'm sure there are other guys out there that will return you love and affection.
2007-01-29 01:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you put yourself through this? In my opinion I would tell him to grow up. Life is way too short to live like that! You deserve better (and maybe so does he). Do you want to live the rest of your life with a person that may keep kissing and hugging other girls? Speaking of kissing, kissing is one of the most affectionate things humans can do....we are the only ones that can truly kiss. Think about that. To answer your question....deep in your heart you know what you need to do! Good Luck!
2007-01-29 01:59:41 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think since he's kissing on other girls u should start kissing on the other guys so u can hurt him like he hurts u or u can both sit down and just talk about if u done anything wrong for him to go off and start kissing on the other females. but if u really love him u should let them other females know that he is taken and beat some ***. but i think since u really love him u should stay with him and try to work everything out with each other.
i'll holla at u later homegirl.
2007-01-29 02:02:02 · answer #5 · answered by tony k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your own decision. But put it this way if he kiss and hugg girls to make them happy because he cares to make them all happy then what would you call him actually getting busy with someone....making someone VERY VERY happy??? Cmon girl, leave him and move on.
2007-01-29 01:59:09 · answer #6 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call me crazy here but if I caught my man kissing other girl his a** would be out on the street. He is obviously cheating on you! Why would you put yourself through that? I say dump him!
2007-01-29 01:57:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him where the two of you stood. Sounds like you both need to make more of a commitment to one another. If not, move on with your life! Good luck!
2007-01-29 01:57:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he is more concerned with himself. You aren't doing anything wrong, so there is nothing you can do to fix it. Girl, you need that boy like a swift kick in the butt... not very much. Ditch him, it'll suck at first, but it'll get better.
2007-01-29 01:55:49 · answer #9 · answered by Ammie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave and never return cause he commiting adultry if you dont know what that means it simply is if your in a relationship and you bf or gf cheats by kissing or any thing you should leave them
2007-01-29 01:59:05 · answer #10 · answered by JAZZYPHAE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋