I do believe in Jesus, isn't she judging me? she does not look at my emails, she said one time that I am on a different path then she is on, and she ignores me, and a couple times I brought her over some pizza I made she rejected it, and I came back home crying, I feel like giving up on church just like my other friend did. They were friends too. she makes me feel worthless. All I want to know isn't that a form of judging someone?
2007-01-29 01:51:13 · 33 answers · asked by Shelly 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I sent the yahoo answers you guys sent me, which were good answers thank you, but that person still will not email me or have nothing to do with me. it still hurts but I will get over it, Her name is lou and she thinks she is the perfect christens, because she is a born again christian and bapitized she thinks she does no wrong anymore. And she has to consult in her Pastor in every decision she makes, because she does not listen to other people only to her Pastor because he is so wise, all I have to say yeah right then why did he leave the church. loeevans@yahoo.com. Try emailing her she wont listen
2007-01-31 03:10:01 · update #1
You deserve better friends....Jesus is a friend that will never leave you nor forsake you....
Your relationship with him is far more important than how others treat you.....He loves you forever.
God Bless..... Men will forsake you ; Christ never will.
2007-01-29 02:00:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
This is how I got bitter inside and often cried at inappropriate times at church. A group of Christians did me the same way in college. Not only that, but they were stalking me so that they could tell others my personal infromation and bad stuff about me. They didn't think I was a believer, either. I was so lonely at that period. Now, I am stronger and have stronger gifts and they still don't believe I'm Christian. Don't give up on Christianity, give up on that friend and learn that she is just not a good friend. A good friend will stick by you always even if she thinks you are wrong. And if you are, she will find some way to tell you and not just blow you off. Stick with God and he will give you a true friend. It happened to me, and it will happen to you to. Just draw closer to him and don't care what other people think. So what do you have to do to get her to prove that you're a Christian, be Mother Teresa or Pope John Paul III? By the way, she's the one who is making all Christians look bad.
2007-01-29 16:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa Svetlana Flavored Coffee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two are very obviously on different paths, i suggest you keep it that way. Even if she didn't consider you a sister in the Lord her actions toward you seem out of line. I have many friends who are unbelievers and this doesn't mean that we don't enjoy good friendships, but it does mean that they cannot relate to the biggest part of my life. I am sure that you will find plenty of people who would be appreciative of that pizza. Evidently you don't have much of a relationship with this girl and that is by her design, there are others though and it shouldn't be long before you experience something a little more rewarding.
2007-01-29 02:07:23 · answer #3 · answered by james p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bible says, do not associate with non believers, however, that was in the old testament. The old testament was abolished when Jesus was born. Your friend ignoring you is wrong. Yes, your friend is judging your faith. The bible also says, Judge not lest ye be judged.
If a true friend thinks one is not a believer, they should try to bring them to Christ, not push them away. It only tells me that your friend is the hypocrite, judging, pushing you away. Even Jesus stopped the people from stoning the prostitute. He told her to go and sin no more.
I'm not up to date on everything in the bible, but I do know that God wants us all to love one another and help each other. Don't give up on Christ, church, your belief in Christ. Even if one does not believe in Jesus, friends, true friends do not treat friends that way. You'll have to let her go her own way and you'll need to move on. Pray that God gives her a wake up call.
2007-01-29 02:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is and she is in the wrong for doing it, but eventually you will come to realize that you have very few friends in this life, most people will be acquaintances but not your friend. Don't give up on church you can make other friends, real friends who will not treat you that way. You should try talking to your Pastor about what is going on he might be able to help.
2007-01-29 02:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by Angelz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is what the bible calls an idiot. Don't waste your time trying to be her friend, she's not worth it. If she can hate someone because they don't follow what she thinks is the right path to god then she is no better than a pile of steaming dog crap. You offer her pizza and she offers you scorn, who do you think jesus was more likely to hang out with? I'll tell you, Jesus was down with the pizza, not some dumb kid that thinks she knows everything.
2007-01-29 01:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by poseidenneptune 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she is judging when it is not her place to determine which path will lead you closer to whatever you believe in. This "friend" is NOT a good Christian, but I am guessing you are both young and young people make these mistakes. I suggest you fill your life with more positive things and let this friend of yours figure out her path on her own.
2007-01-29 01:56:20 · answer #7 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her. She is heading down a road that will only isolate her further. Rather than allowing her judgemental, non-christian behavior continue to hurt you, just walk away. Someday she may see the error of her ways and reach out. Be there for her then, but until then just live your own life and be happy.
2007-01-29 02:11:42 · answer #8 · answered by Murazor 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a "friend" like that and she doesn't deserve a friend like you. Whatever you decide concerning your belief in Jesus, God or anything else, this young woman is a spiteful, judgemental little brat and you would do well to waste no more tears on her. Let her live her lonely bitter life with people who will not challenge her. Find some real friends. You are entitled to them.
2007-01-29 01:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by Bad Liberal 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she is definitely judging you. Even if you didn't believe in God, she shouldn't treat you like that, that's your choice. She isn't truely a christian if she's acting like that. I don't think you should give up God because of her, do what you want. If you really want to be christian, do it the right way. I'm christian and have many friends who are not. I don't push them to believe or shun them for not doing so. She is a really crappy friend, I would move on and forget about her because karma is a *****.
2007-01-29 01:58:19 · answer #10 · answered by krazy_chic6944 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She is not living like christ did, Christ sat and ate with sinners that is who he hung out with. Do not worry about her look at yourself and see if the things you do glorify yourself or glorify GOD, Do not give up on christ because he hung on a cross for you, There are many so called christians out there that think that they are going to heaven because they say they are saved but their action are not becoming of a true follower of christ. they are the Pharissess, thay are the sadduccess, they are the one who will not make it through the gates to GOD, beware of many false teachers for they will lead you to the ways of eternal damnation, distance yourself from her and find new christian friends ones who help strenghten your walk not hinder you. Your friend in christ
2007-01-29 02:00:23 · answer #11 · answered by Slider 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋