mother treats me. I love her so much and I dont want to lose her over something this stupid!! I really don't care about what her mother thinks of me. I don't want to end our relationship please somebody help me! What should I do???
2007-01-29 01:15:09 · 10 answers · asked by anthony 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmm, this is tough.
I went through something similar, where my family hated a guy I dated, and so did my friends, and I ended up leaving him because of the pressure. Sometimes I wonder if it was the right decision or not.
Regardless, I think you should let her know how much she means to you, and see if there's a way that you can work around it. Can she talk to her mother about treating you with more respect? If it doesnt work, you could also offer to just take a break, give her a little time to miss you and realize that she wants you back. It's hard to leave something you've been used to for so long, and hopefully she'll see that and how much you care about her.
The best I can say, is to talk to her about it, and express your concerns. I hope everything goes well for you, I know it's hard. Hopefully her reasoning is legit and not just an excuse to leave the relationship.
2007-01-29 01:24:06 · answer #1 · answered by Mellissa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey buddy, this probably an excuse for breaking up with u, so don't hang on too much hope even if u persist. Sometimes ending a fruitless relationship is leading to another new ones that will blossom eventually. But if u explain to her and she accept and carry on with u then I think is a worthy relationship, otherwise move on, u never know there's a even wonderful gal waiting for u out there! I always say, 'If is yours, is yours!' Take it easy. Gd luck.
2007-01-29 10:56:50 · answer #2 · answered by RenRen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a lame excuse. She just doesn't want to be with you. It probably has little or nothing to do with her mom. It's just an excuse. Sorry, but I tell it like it is. It sucks and it probably really hurts you, but you have to let her go. There's nothing you can do to make her want to stay with you if she doesn't want to be with you. Don't argue with her about it and try to convince her not to do it, it'll just make you look desperate and no woman likes that. Best thing to do is let her go, take some time to lick your wounds and then get back out there and have fun and hang out with your friend and enjoy yourself. She may decide she does want to be with you after she see's you've moved on and you're not pining away over her. It's hard, but please don't be one of those guys who's pathetic and begs his girlfriend to stay with him!! Just let her go. Realize that she's made her decision and you need to deal with it.
2007-01-29 09:24:33 · answer #3 · answered by gidget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is just using that as excuse to not be with u, if she truly loved you she wouldnt give a **** about what her mother thought, i know this cos my parents don't particually like my boyfriend but do u think that stops me from loving him any less? no way, u need to ask your girlfriend what her real problem is i'm sure there's something more.
2007-01-29 09:22:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her exactly what u';ve told us and ask if her mum is really the reason she wants to break up with u, or is she looking for excuses, i know u love her but if she's not feeling the same u can't make someone love u, but the best thing to do is to talk to her
2007-01-29 09:34:29 · answer #5 · answered by DaRkAnGeL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you still love her and you don't care what her mom thinks. but then again she may not want to tell u the real reason she wants to break up with yu
2007-01-29 09:20:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her break up with you and find someone who has more of a reason to call it quits.
2007-01-29 09:18:55 · answer #7 · answered by Java Queen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did you tell her that you didn't want it to end b/c of that reason? cause you should've! i think you guys should talk about it more, there has to be another reason why she wants the relationship to end..
2007-01-29 09:20:44 · answer #8 · answered by T-NEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her a question.Are you going to let your mother choose who you love or love who you choose?
2007-01-29 09:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by Jamane W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else. what a lame excuse she may just be using that ....
2007-01-29 09:21:29 · answer #10 · answered by swimmyfishy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋