I used to like this guy and I could have had him but I got scared because I had trust issues after another guy cheated on me. Well this guy eventually got a g/f and now their broken up. Recently I've been thinking about him and I miss him, but I lost his number and hes never online. We go to the same community college but I havent seen him there yet. So obviously its not easy to just talk to him about this. I wish I could hate him, but its too hard and I still care about him. What do I do?
2007-01-29 01:04:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As friends we could talk about everything and we had so much fun, and now I feel like I made a huge mistake.
2007-01-29 01:05:27 · update #1
Try finding him and see if it will work again. You never know until you try! Good Luck!
2007-01-29 01:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really try to get ahold of him somehow. How do you know that he doesnt feel the same way you do? Guys do weird things! All you can do is tell him how you feel, sometimes when people are hurt they try to avoid the whole situation and maybe thats why you have not seen him. Tell him how you feel, IM sure if you were friends before that he misses tou too! Good Luck!!
2007-01-29 09:12:24 · answer #2 · answered by stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find him. That's all you can do. Don't let issues of the past hinder your future relationships. You have to resolve you feelings and the only way to do that is to find him and make a move. What's the worst that could happen? Even if things didn't work out you could just say "i tried". Surely there must be a way to find him or his number. Good luck!
2007-01-29 09:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by rigby88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the office, and tell them you have an important message for him...that you know because of confidentiality they can't just release his class schedule...leave the note,and let them contact him. Make sure you leave your contact info, such as cell phone and e-mail on the letter. And good luck! Remember I know it is hard but don't think because your last guy lacked integrity this guy automatically does.
2007-01-29 09:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by Suzanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friendship does not really mean great realtionship... its a start but does not alwasy equal to that... that si first thing.. no point in torturing youself if you are going to get scared again... so think of what you want then wait and see if fait brings u together,,,, if you are getting scared again dont even bother putting urself through it all..
Cheers
J
2007-01-29 09:39:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never go out with a person you wish to talk to.
sooner or later when the relationship ends you cant be friends because your ex-partner will just think you want them
happened to me with my ex
2007-01-29 09:09:38 · answer #6 · answered by morderwarg 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you go to the same school, sooner or later you'll see him. Just play it off like no big deal.
2007-01-29 09:09:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you have facebook or myspace? Try to do a friend search on there.
2007-01-29 09:09:51 · answer #8 · answered by Adriane 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is a college e-mail address that everyone has right?
2007-01-29 09:10:30 · answer #9 · answered by Harry P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He moved on think you should too.
2007-01-29 09:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by peg42857 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋