my x and i were going out for almost 3 yrs but we broke up last yr then i met ds 1drful guy and he makes me laugh, he just makes me happy but my x still wants me back bt im afraid to commit to ds new guy coz probabaly he'll just end up hurting me, im more closer to ds new guy bt the feeling of fear is always there, will i go 2 d person whom i know really loves me or will i take the risk of choosing this new guy even if he'll hurt me?
2007-01-29 01:02:38 · 7 answers · asked by miss carmay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow!! u sound like me. im going through the same thing. my ex and i went out for 4 yrs now he wants me bak. but ive been going out with another guy for 4 months and i really like him but im afraid he might not be serious enough. ne ways all i can say ur ex is ur ex. give the new guy a chance he makes u happy and ur ex obviously screwed up so its time to move on and try something new. Its hard and risky but the bottom line is u just never know. Good Luck!!
2007-01-29 01:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why didnu break up with ur ex in the first place? maybe u wanna go back to ur ex cos u've known him longer and u feel a sense of security? by the sounds of it the way u talk about u new guy u must really like him, i don't know ur proper sutation so the desicions upto u, but don't think of what might happen in the furutre, live each day as it comes and if things don't work out it ain't the end of the world, u'll learn and become wiser
2007-01-29 01:38:08 · answer #2 · answered by DaRkAnGeL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up for a reason (with the ex). If this new guy makes you laugh and makes you happy, give him a chance. You never know. This could lead to something extraordinary!
2007-01-29 01:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to be without a man for awhile. I say get rid of both, enjoy being singe for a few months or so to let your head clear. then make a clear level headed decision. No need to rush into making an important decision.
2007-01-29 01:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by yikesabeeee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the certainty which you're scared tell him approximately your emotions. If he truly loves you he will comprehend and assist you. And in case you think of you're waiting for intercourse confirm you utilize secure practices the two one among you. yet once you think of you at the instant are not waiting then do no longer do it. all of the suitable =)
2016-11-28 02:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by riddle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think.. why did you break up in the first place.. why would you wanna go back.. your ex already hurt you once. give the new guy a chance..
2007-01-29 01:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by bajajunglemama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is an ex for a reason right?
2007-01-29 01:07:02 · answer #7 · answered by Harry P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋