There is this guy I like at work, and we go to the same gym and run into each other sometimes. We had "the conversation" at the gym. I told him right out that I am interested in him because he is nice looking, is single, doesn't have children, and is basically equal to me financially. We are in our thirties, and could start a life together, in my opinion. I pour myself out to him, and he immediately says "I don't date people at work." So after that, I felt like "well whatever" and just went about my life. He is very nice and helps me at work, because we work in the same department, and he is more experienced in the particular job we do. Also, whenever I see him at the gym now, he acts like he wants to talk. I don't understand after he rejects me like that, he acts like he likes me. I think he's not attracted to me. Otherwise, work or not, we'd be together. Does any GUY no why this guy would act wishy-washy?
2007-01-29 00:08:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To understand a guy thought process you have to grow a dick first because that's usually what they think with.
2007-01-29 00:15:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wish i had all the answers. but I'm afraid i don't. Men are pretty straight forward, well most of them most of the time. If he is interested in you he will tell you, if he isn't..... then you get the on off, yes no, or just plain no. they are all so different. i do have one recommendation though.... i have always waved it off and said "no way" but then finally bit the bullet and read 'men are from mars, women are from Venus' by john Gray - it can be quite general at times, but i guess it has to be...... still...... read it! it is defiantly an eye opener, and even more so, advice or opinions from someone who is not emotionally involved with you and more so trained to understand the aspects areas of relationships.
2007-01-29 08:38:21 · answer #2 · answered by Helen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps, like he said, he doesnt date people he works with but now he is interested in you and he is torn because he may be breaking one of his own rules.
2007-01-29 08:13:25 · answer #3 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dating and being friends are 2 different things
he wants to be friends just not date or get involved with you
2007-01-29 08:16:26 · answer #4 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you didn't fawn over him, you went about your business. Now he wants you. Keep playing hard to get.
2007-01-29 08:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the poor guy alone. Please! this is for your own good coz you may end up hurting him or him hurting you by the way you both act.
2007-01-29 08:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by stiletto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋