my name is casandra i am a christian, my problem is that my ex wants to go out wiv me agen but the problem is that he's a playa, i love him so much nd he loves me dearly to, but its jus that i'm not able to trust him nd his playa ways but i love him so dearly nd i want to go back out with him agen. what shud i do?
2007-01-29 00:06:10 · 6 answers · asked by cassyforsure 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1st: Once a player, always a player.
2nd: Try someone at church.
3rd: If you want others to give you good answers or advice watch your autography. It really does matter!
2007-01-29 00:15:03 · answer #1 · answered by bloo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dont go back to him.The same problem will occur over and over again unless he gets mature enough to realize things.But for now,im prety ure he is not ready for a serious relationship and just wasnts you back for any other reason.If you got hurt before dont give him another chance to hurt you again.He will always be a player no matter what.He doesnt care and respect your feelings and you just tolerate it so dont let anyone do it again especially him.
2007-01-29 08:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by becauseofyou a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think deep down you already have your answer; do you really want to go back to someone whom you know will hurt you like he has previously? Take a look back - our past serves to teach us so that we don't make the same mistakes in the future. If you don't trust him, he's a player (I don't even want to talk about the STIs this man can give you! i.e. if you're relating in "that" way), why would you want to go back to him?
2007-01-29 08:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by Lani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
without trust and honesty theres not going to be a good relationship. maybe you should ask him before you make up your mind if he's gonna stop being a "playa" and stay true to you. make up your mind based on how he reacts and what he says. dont let him hurt you or play you.
2007-01-29 08:14:44 · answer #4 · answered by demonized 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but christians are not suppossed to be having boyfriends, unless they are in a courtship. You need to receonsider where you stand with your religion before you do anything else.
2007-01-29 08:37:58 · answer #5 · answered by stiletto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should fcuk him in a christian way.
2007-01-29 08:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋