How do you get past feeling angry toward someone who's not treating you right?

Question

How do you get past feeling angry toward someone who's not treating you right?
I'm kinda enduring an awkward situation at work. One of my closest guy friends works at the same place as I do and I began to develop feelings for him though he's in a long-term long-distance relationship. I told him I liked him and that it was best that we ignore each other for awhile so I can get over him. Anyway he asked me if I wanted to hook up with him, i said i did, but then he said i should do it with another guy I like. Anyway during all of this, I got mad at him for jerking my feelings around and I ended up calling him a dog, but then I apologized. I said all of this via text. The next day I wrote him a letter saying how sorry I was for how I acted, and that it was better that we treat each other as professionals since he has a gf and I need to move on. The thing is he's ignoring me and has been for the past 4 weeks. Last week, was my birthday and I got a card from some coworkers. He wrote Happy Birthday, but didn't sign his name and he's still not talking to me.

Answer 1

Take a "time out".
Spend some time away from this particular friend.
Cultivate new friendships with others who share common interests with you.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

Answer 2

Let's see,isn't this post # 55 on the SAME subject?

Do you work for Yahoo answers?

Answer 3

sounds like he likes you but is feeling mixed emotions because he has a girlfriend sounds like the faithful type

Answer 4

He's trying to move on, so you should too. Get out, be friendly try to meet someone else, and soon you'll forget all about him.good luck :)



also, can anybody please help me with my dilemma?
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