2007-01-28 23:45:19 · 11 answers · asked by freezing lady 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No..never forget a friend...you never know when someone might rescue you from a dark time in your life.
Each person has times when they need to be alone it's a natural feeling to need time to just get away from the stresses of everyday life.
If your friend seems to be really depressed then he might need some help. If he has some bad habits that are threatening his life.
People are so overloaded these days with problems from all parts of their life. Sometimes a greeting card with a message you have written saying " I'm thinking of you ....and if you want to talk to me about anything I'm here for you.." might be just the thing that triggers something in your friend to ask for help if he needs it.
You can't force anyone to make changes...but you can keep in touch and suggest something in writing...hopefully it will touch him in a way that makes him want to get up and get out of his situation.
Do you know any of his friends? Get together with them and all of you decide what you can do as a group to let him know he is valued and cared about. Like bringing dinner over to him one night PIZZA...
Best wishes to you and your friend,
Mama Jazzy Geri
2007-01-28 23:57:00 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Jazzy Geri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine the perfect component to do is to bypass to a councillor jointly and kind by ability of regardless of the priority or topics are. You definately ought to no longer be searching round as this makes your complications at domicile look even worse. once you've exhausted all avenues to save your marriage and also be sure you say to your self that you've achieved each and everything you could to rectify the priority and it hasnt greater or he wont help and also you're prepared to commence again then depart and no you'll say you only gave up on your marriage, no longer that it is anybody elses agency, even though it resources a sparkling concience that you tried and didnt depart for the incorrect motives. we may be able to all get sex from different individuals thats a generic actuality, yet does it make us fairly satisfied? the reply in NO we may get some self delight for the fast time period and the buzz etc that this supplies us, even though it is short lived and then we've our concience to stay with. depart your guy chum on my own and concentration on what you've. you recognize some thing i imagine about is that if i had positioned as a lot attempt into my marriage of 23 years as i did chasing sex i ought to in all likelihood be nonetheless married and don't have lengthy handed by ability of 10 years of distress, you observe karma receives us all ultimately and makes us pay. So provide it some serious interest in the previous operating off with each and anyone. wish this recommendation is taken interior the way it became meant. good luck
2016-10-16 06:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by warrenfeltz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to him about your concerns? If so what did he say? You say. "shut himself away," what does that mean? Does he need help? If so, by no means should you ignore him. Don't try to solve the problem by yourself, but intervene with others to encourage him to get help.
If he is just avoiding your friendship, his loss. Most reasonable people wouldn't shut out friendship. Unless, you are expecting a bit more than friendship.
Thirdly, life is too short. I am sure others value your friendship and strangers who get to know you, probably will too.
2007-01-28 23:51:04 · answer #3 · answered by Their Guardian Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey buddy, u answered my question, so some how i felt like u have some problem. so, came to chk out ur question and i found what i expected.
Don't let him goaway. Does he knows your feelings for him? If not you tell him what you feel and wait for his answer. Hope he agrees. and discuss all your concerns with him and try to make it work. If he doesn't agrees or for some reason can't make it up with you....open your arms and just hug god and say to god that "atleast you are always with me, doesn't matter what". And you won't feel alone. Wish to talk to you more.Email me when u have a chance.Would like to share your sadness. Because I KNOW HOW IT FEELS TO LOSSE A LOVE. vishalpnp@yahoo.com
2007-01-29 15:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The short answer is no.
I could give more explanation if you would provide more details?
2007-01-28 23:47:43 · answer #5 · answered by Velouria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-01-28 23:47:38 · answer #6 · answered by BTH L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
know you should not if he a real friend go and see about him
are do you know jesus if pray for him and you will see a
change god is good if you dont know jesus today you will
2007-01-28 23:56:41 · answer #7 · answered by april.simon s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give any details. This question isn't vague at all.
2007-01-28 23:48:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no,try to help ur friend maybe he has problems,talk with him see if u can help him
2007-01-28 23:49:48 · answer #9 · answered by angie w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the aswer "Peta" said.
also, can anybody please help me with my dilemma?
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2007-01-28 23:52:54 · answer #10 · answered by thats it 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋