I love a girl but she doesn't love me. So I decided to be her friend to keep my chance. Now, I send to her some sms each day to tell some fun story or ask about her day. Sometime she answer my sms but sometime not. I just want to get more closer with her. Do you think what I am doing is right?
2007-01-28 23:23:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're on the right track dude! Just don't overdo it. 1 SMS in the morning after she wakes up and 1 SMS before she sleeps should be enough. Good luck!
2007-01-28 23:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be the one to tell you this, but you're probably just getting on her nerves. Do you hate it when a girl that you aren't interested in chases after you? Well, my friend, that is just what you are doing to her. If you're really interested in her, and you want to see results, the best way to do that is to back off. Stop contacting her so much (sorry, but I'm old and I have no idea what sms means). If I was in your shoes, I'd stop contacting her completely for a week or two, and see if she contacted me at all. You know, just to see if she noticed. Then, if she asked what happened to me, I would tell her that I've been busy. DON'T lie here! Keep yourself busy with something, anything! Get a job, start jogging, read like a maniac, teach yourself to ice skate, anything that will keep you from getting in contact with her. (Make sure it's something that you wanted to do in the first place, okay?) See if she says anything like she missed you talking to her. If she DOESN'T, then say adios to her, and find someone who appreciates you for who you are, and quit wasting your time on someone that doesn't. If she does miss you, then you all need to have a head-to-head chat, in person. Is she missing your friendship, or has it changed into something else? Sometimes (I know it sounds corny, but it's sooo true) people don't realize what they have until it isn't there anymore.
I feel for you, because I've been in this kind of situation several times before. But please remember that life is too short to waste pining over someone that has no interest in you. You deserve better than that!
2007-01-28 23:40:56 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal L ™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should not sms her daily otherwise she will get bored of it. Dont sms for a whole day... C her expression. whether she sends u msg or not. as she did not recieve ur msg. And plz send msgs after one or two days gap. Not frequently. She gets annoyed dats y she doesn't reply u.
2007-01-28 23:28:22 · answer #3 · answered by || SMI || 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be it. If she do reply to your sms, that's gd enuff. Keep your friendship at a healthy level. Just do your best and let the rest be in the hands of fate.
2007-01-28 23:30:11 · answer #4 · answered by freezing lady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never let a girl know that you are really interested in her unless she is ur girlfriend.this may sound pointless but girls want the guys who dont want them. so, stop sending her sms' that will only bore her and i bet u dont want that.But never ever forget that girls want their boyfriends to call them everyday so when u have a girlfriend never forget to call her
2007-01-28 23:35:36 · answer #5 · answered by kwlcmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How often is "sometimes" she replies to you?
Make it your guiding line.If she replies weekly,then send her weekly only.Just keep one
or two sms unanswered.Send to others too, so you won't send anymore to her as often as you are used to.
2007-01-28 23:39:23 · answer #6 · answered by ranya j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.stay away from her for a week and see if she misses your sms's or not.....if she doesnt send a single sms.fogert her
2007-01-28 23:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by tot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never do enough to please a woman, but you can do too much to irritate one. Do everything within reason.
2007-01-28 23:26:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her, they may just annoy her.
2007-01-28 23:27:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ,stay away from her
2007-01-28 23:27:25 · answer #10 · answered by angie w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋