We're actually planning to leave together after she finishes her studies in her country, then she would move and live and finish her studies and life (whole hopefully :) ) with me.
Now, I know that long distance relationships aren't simple, and often finishes badly.
But we do love each other and I'd like to know whether i should write to her everyday day and call her once or so a week or leave it until I really miss her and then calling her from time to time only...
Thank you for your help :)
2007-01-28 23:16:46 · 12 answers · asked by theonoshi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good morning......In May of 06 I left my hometown in NY and relocated to a small town in NC. The distance is 600 miles. You can do it in one day but it isn't comfortable. I left behind my fiance'. She and I love each other deeply. I knew that our relationship was going to consist mostly of phone and email for the better part of a year. We have managed to see each other but it's been every 4-6 weeks and then only for a weekend or so. We are still very much in love and we talk at least 5 times a day. Some of those calls only last 2 or 3 minutes but it keeps us in touch. We email back and forth but at a much lesser rate.
This has worked well for us. We've kept in touch and part of each others daily lives by talking to one another as often as it suits us.
I hope this has been helpful.
2007-01-28 23:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by kaptin2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course! Shes gonna want to kno that u love her. By calling and writing her she knows you care. Long distance are hard 2 keep going but Im sure u two will b together and on a straight path.
2007-01-29 07:22:05 · answer #2 · answered by Ultra_Trackgurl13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question sounds familiar maybe becoz its happening to me also...Me as a girl I dont demand for a SMS each day..but of course I love it when He do...Chat at least twice a week,calling atleast 2mins once a week and SMS 4x/wk thats not bad at all..as long as we both know what the true feelings we had for each other and holding on to one another's compromises...no SMS everyday is needed...
2007-01-29 07:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by 3sh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most importantly, you must learn to trust your girl. No matter how far she may be, if she loves only you, why should you worry. Let me suggest to you. Why not you e-mail to her rather than calling her on the phone often. Yes you may do so and put it maybe once every fortnight. At least it saves your penny. Dont wait till you miss her badly, then only you look her up.
2007-01-29 07:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by freezing lady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something you probably should've decided w/ her, together. Call her or whatever and ask her her feelings on the subject. That way u won't end up pushing her away by being to needy, or on the flip side, for being inattentive. Talk to the girl u Love....go on call her : )
2007-01-29 07:26:09 · answer #5 · answered by GreyGHost29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch for the overkill, Bruh! Men and Women, alike. Do get whitewashed with a routine. Congrats on falling head-over-heels, with this one. Make it work!
2007-01-29 07:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my ex had a long distance relationship and it meant the world 2 me when he smsd me i felt atleast he's thinkin of me.If you really love her and want 2 b with her then do whateva it takes
2007-01-29 07:25:49 · answer #7 · answered by SDT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know what's appropriate, then you don't know her well enough, are you sure you want to keep a long distance relationship?
2007-01-29 07:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her always as much as time allows u. that way u register ur presence in her life even in ur absence she ll alway feel u around her.(that is if she truely luv u).
2007-01-29 07:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by joddie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in my experience i think that long distant relationships don't work but good luck with that
2007-01-29 07:20:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋