what do you do when you been hurt so much you wont Let any one in your life cause you scared of getting hurt again but worse
2007-01-28 23:13:08 · 11 answers · asked by persian gal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i actually had decided not to marry and dedicate my life to my aspirations.. study a lot and share my income to the poor .. some gud deeds.. and there i met a gal..i m in love.. sometimes i get hurt by her things.. but still i love her.. try to love someone but dont expect anything from them.. that could save lot of your feelings..
i can get that its hard that way.. but nothing is impossible.. now the future of mine.. simple.. if she marries me.. great and gud also if not .. i ll have my same old path.. but because heart actually remains for one there couldnt be space for the other one..
Take care dear.. and be happy.
2007-01-29 04:44:35 · answer #1 · answered by Raki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to trust. Find out what in your life made you attract the ones who hurt you and change that part of you and you will attract the right person next time. We attract certain people because of how we are. For Example: If you were abused as a child and no one did anything about it, you will attract abusive men in some form or another. SO what ever it is, it is your personality that attracts these types of guys that hurt you. Or maybe you anticipate getting hurt and sabotage your own relationship unknowingly. Or you are afraid of success sub-consciously and sabotage anything you have that is good. It could be anything.
2007-01-29 07:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aie bird, cut this crap.It happens. Don't seek sympathy,it may make u weeker. Just fight this feelin out.
Regarding the hurt part it can surely be treated as it is a medical condition wherein some bloody harmones cause all this trouble. three Patiala pegs(60ml) with ice soda and water in the company of anyone you trust, or alone in a safe place,thrice a day for three days should take care of your condition.
Cheers life is beautiful...........move on.
2007-01-29 13:49:21 · answer #3 · answered by asheesh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is a risk and with out risks we can´t go on this has happend to me also i have learnt again to trust after 2 years but in life you have no warranty there is no receipt for a perfect living what helped me is an old saying for every pot there is a lid to pass so don´t give up the right person is out there.
2007-01-30 04:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have time to heal. you need to heal. no man is an island. you can't really live alone. life is sometimes like that (you get hurt) but you'll bounce back. life is like a tire. it goes around, up and down. when the time comes that you are ready for another relationship you'll know it.
2007-01-29 08:42:03 · answer #5 · answered by neo_the_friendly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got just the solution for you. Don't throw it all away. There can be someone out there, for you. You can't let him just walk away. Listen to YOUR Heart. It can help you decide what the Truth is. We've taken our Heart, out of Love. And that's where it's suppose to come from. Your Heart knows right-from-wrong. Listen to it thump,thump,thump. Good Luck!
2007-01-29 07:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by Goggles 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know the feelin`, but I did it again :(
2007-01-29 07:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by Apollo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop wining and go out and have a good time!
2007-01-29 07:20:29 · answer #8 · answered by gvdank 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never came across that person
2007-01-29 07:45:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hide
2007-01-29 07:19:45 · answer #10 · answered by conan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋