i mean i have a friend who so close that she is next to my family to me.i like her somuch.she is the only friend i have in my whole life.she broke with me just few days before.i tried to convice her a lot but she so angry that she pushes me away infront of her friends.i feel very insulted about it.
2007-01-28 23:07:49 · 11 answers · asked by sashi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on.
It is a dangerous move to make ONE PERSON your whole world. What happens if they die, or, if they leave you.
God made you WHOLE and you need to carry youself in such a way.
Second you need a variety of FRIENDS.
Never put your eggs all in ONE basket. Diversify your friends as you would your 401(k). You should attempt to be a person with OPTIONS. What options do you have if you have ONE person who is your friend?
She is telling you how she feels about you when she pushes you away from her while in front of her friends.
You need to respond by getting a new set of friends and EXPANDING your circle of friends and EXPANDING your horizons.
The world does not revolve around her and you should stop treatin her as if it does.
2007-01-28 23:16:13 · answer #1 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can stop and meditate (think) and empty your mind of these bad hurts (emotions) and although it takes time, you will succeed and the bad will weakend and you will succeed. and you must do this and wait and wait. wait until enough time as ;pasted. you can wait. you have all the time you need to wait and continue thinking the righgt way. and participate with a group so you are constantly isolated. you can fast from time to time p;roveingto youself that you have all the control and not your former friend. Never be the weak one again, not your boss. you are you and she is she. never allow yourself to be a litle child in an adult relationship ever again. Love JONNY B. GOOD -- ;PEACE AND GOD BE WITH YOU. nom yo ho -- nicheron so shu.
2007-01-28 23:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. LEave her be to calm down. I'm talking a week to a month, depending on what you did. If you are meant to be she will forgive and she will come back to you. But with age we all change. Don't get to obsessed with her, it will take over your life. FInd something to keep you occupied , school, work, hobbies, etc. Then it won't be so hard on you.
2007-01-28 23:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't given much info but I guess all you do if she doesn't want you is let go. It hurts I know and you feel that you'll never love again but you Will and the day will come when she is a distant memory Trust me.
2007-01-28 23:14:01 · answer #4 · answered by LMac100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to her place if you can..see her in person and talk to her, ask her why she broke with you, ask her the reason for her anger...ask her if she thinks you did something wrong, and if so, try to resolve the problem, find a solution and if she still refuses to talk, then i don't think you can do much about it..i think talking with her can be beneficial and solve half the problem...good luck
2007-01-28 23:15:52 · answer #5 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. she is not the only friend u have. and if u still want to be friends with her then give her time to cool off then try to talk to her again.
2007-01-28 23:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by Cutie Bery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont try to convince her now,let her calm down,and then talk to her.
2007-01-28 23:14:35 · answer #7 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new friend, that`s life, if you were best friend that shall pass
2007-01-28 23:37:06 · answer #8 · answered by Apollo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to move on and make new friends .
2007-01-28 23:10:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a friend
2007-01-28 23:10:34 · answer #10 · answered by mandy p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋