i m in love whithan egyptian boy we met on net now i found that i cant live whithout him he told me he come hear to mery me my mom dad not alow me to mery him but i love him .....so can i trust on him and weit 4 him i dont understand what to do
2007-01-28 22:53:25 · 10 answers · asked by jadav b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
humm, to take my turn.. the same thing happened to me and the gal was 600kms away from me. and i talk to her daily. the thing is going on since jan 2006. i infact love her somuch. I donno about your guy but i m certainly not going to leave this gal and i have decided to marry her. But as time will change more facts come up and things may change. The thing that happens is trust grows as u advance with your social way. I however chose her coz i m near to her tat i can move to her wenever i want to also planning to move to her place for my further studies.
And in your case dear.. i m very sad that u dont have a choice to see him face to face. Try askin him to meet u soon and fix some time spending with him. you ll get to know him better , u could know his way of speaking, and u could know many things of his character just by getting him less than a metre distance. And do think of your life sweety. It mite lead you to happiness or to disaster. Want to get any help you could get me at cold_rakesh@yahoo.com . It ll b a pleasure helping u.
Regards and best of luck.
2007-01-29 04:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by Raki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how young you are but you sound very naive! Do Not ever just accept someone's word who you don't know and have never met at face value. You've never met this man, just because he says he is a certain person doesn't mean that he is here's an example of what point I'm trying to get across. Just because he may be in an Internet chat room for 1 armed 3 legged Dutch men and says he is one, if you've never seen him or met him in person how do you know he is who he says he is? You don't!! If he really truly loves you he'll either come here (and pay his own way) or he'll invite you over to him (depending on your age) And sweetie if your under 18 years the man is probably a pedophile. PLEASE TAKE EXTREME CAUTION!!! I'm worried fr you and pray you'll do right thing by yourself.
All the best J.RabbitXXXX
2007-01-28 23:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by LMac100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey sweetie pls listen 2 ur parents .......... in this case atleast as the guy u r talking abt is frm Egypt n no one can tell u tht he is a trustworthy person............ people can pnly gve sme soothng relief to u but no1 can guarantee abt himmmmmmmmm..... if the guy wud hve been an indian then probably i wud not hve suggested u this........ but he is frm egypt & suppose he marries u here n then u both fly back to his home town ......... n aftr sme time if he levs u then u wud not be able to retrn back ur parents.... i do feel so tht the guy might be a honest person but u cannopt trust ny1 in this world............. so pls stick to the words of ur parents n forget tht guy............ i m sure u will come out of this situation very fast ........ n never try committing suicide or ending ur beautiful life........ coz it is the best gift u r gifted with.............. by GOD the Almighty........... Pls PLs PLs dont ever think of tht........ if u feel depressed pls contact me on tejas_mjoshi@yahoo.co.in............ will be waiting 4 ur reply................
2007-01-28 23:17:56 · answer #3 · answered by tejas_mjoshi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look dear, it s big trouble, i know , but i want to say something : since u know that ur family ll never accept such relation , why did u go on in it?
" me myself ll have the same problem if i love someone on net and from far, different country" so i know that net is only for friendship.
2. u shuld say to ur boyfriend that ur relation is impossible. do not make him waste his time and money on nothing.
3. if u love him and he deserves ur love, try with ur members family but u shuld know that no total confidence shuld be given to him coz may be, after that , under some circumstances, he ll withdraw, i do not know.
at that time , u ll loose both family and the guy.
4. u ll suffer a lot to gain no thing if ur family still against, may be ur family is reserved, so no harm to try but the problem is that he is far away from u, u ll not find him beside u to fight together.
5. do not leave ur family which is ur roots for no thing sure.
6. bear in ur mind one single, relaxing thing is that if God wants u to be his wife, no single force on this earth can prevent being his wife and in between his arms and ur head on his chest. no one can stand against that, be sure. so calm down
7. Do not give ur trust to someone who s not ur husband, but give him chances .
8. Finally, u can love one, two , three , so do not loose ur family. love comes and goes and comes and goes.we " girls"re not totally responsible of ourselves, our parents have something to say. so, use ur mind.and make him just friend.
Hey, ur love is difficult, if u want to try, more suffering ll be waiting but ll u gain wat u want?. gud luck and take care.
2007-01-29 01:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by gentle whisper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't trust upon him. it is not love it is just a attraction and crush. you will get a good boy untill you have to wait. if you marry him what is the guarenty that you wil be happy. think about it. all the best
2007-01-28 23:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by lucky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is a precious commodity! Marriage is a major milestone, a major step in life! Real life, your life, is different from filmee life and storybook life! Think well, debate well, before final decision!
2007-01-28 23:01:07 · answer #6 · answered by swanjarvi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm. meet the guy. get to know him more. dont do make decision so fast. get along with him. cause since u know him on the net maybe he didnt turn out the way he is on the net.
2007-01-28 22:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by Cutie Bery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what your parents say
they are best advisers what ever they say must be difficult to follow for some days but they will be correct
plz dont trust your bf ,trust your parents who have brought up you
2007-01-28 23:08:46 · answer #8 · answered by ani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see first of all try to search more abt this guy n if he is saying true than try to convince your parents but don't go against them yaar
2007-01-29 02:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by priya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pls baby 4gt it,,,,,,,,,just dont take risk,,,,,,,,,,,,,pls trust ur parents,,,,,,,,,,,,,pls pls pls 4 god sake ,,,,,,,4get it ,,,,,,,,,,,nd aft takn a wrong decision ul b left alone only wit tears nothig else,,,,,,,,,,,,,
2007-01-28 23:23:35 · answer #10 · answered by sweetu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋