He cheated. I stayed because of personal roadblocks...But, part of my healing is him talking to me about his insecurities & why he did those things to me when he knew it would rip my heart out. Whenever I approach the subject he turns and walks away, saying, " I love you, Sarah, only you." These words have become meaningless to me now because if you really love someone that much, wouldn't you want to do everything you could to relieve their pain??? Help!! I feel hopeless.
2007-01-28 22:51:10 · 4 answers · asked by stuckinarut_again 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps it is time to examine those personal roadblocks again. He is not willing to communicate and does not respect your feelings. Those words are simply words he assumes will pacify you so he can continue to act like a spoiled child. He did not cheat to tear your heart out. he cheated because he is immature and self-centered. The fact that you remained with him gave him the confidence that no matter what he does, there will be no consequences. It is time to let him go.
2007-01-28 22:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by fly guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't feel helpless, you stated earlier, that part of your healing is him talking to you about his insecurities. Mind you now don't let that confuse you, if he really loves you, he'll be willing to talk things over with you and get it solved once and for all.
2007-01-28 23:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by meandmineownself 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy seems like a classic cheater,dump him. He's just feeding you lines. If he loves you, then he should be able to talk about why he cheated.
and also, can anybody please help me out with my own dilemma?
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2007-01-28 23:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by thats it 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go and move on......good luck
2007-01-28 22:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋