i have a crush on this guy and we've been exchanging mails since last june. it wasn't like 3-4 mails a month kinda thing. we were both very busy. and a few days back i decided to give him my number because i really wanted to keep in touch with him.he thought he wouldn't reply much less give me his number but he gave me his nunber! i didn't ask for it!it was really a pleasant surprise.and now i'm thinking if i should continue replying to his mails or text him.should i wait for him to text me first?and how do i know if he's interested or not?any ways i can test it out besides asking him directly cause even if he isn't interested,we cans till be friends.asking him directly would really place our frienship on the rocks.pls help!!
2007-01-28 22:23:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go ahead and ask him i do't see it offensive at all, after all he would know you care about him to consider having him as a partner not just a friend
You may start bya sking him how hw would feel having you for a life time as a wife. his response would tell you if he is interested and pick it from there.
I hope it works out and by the look of things he sounds interested and if not he was not going to give you his numbers. Oh, you asked about texting first, you can aqsk him hw his day was not revealing your intents. the other thing is have you ever met incase you find that you are not interested in him but you seemed to be coz you did not meet the person behind the mails.
good luck once again.
2007-01-28 22:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All up to you whether you keep up the e-mail and text/call him.
I think, if he gave you his number, he obviously wants to keep in better contact with you as well. Send him a friendly, "Good morning" text or something to get the ball rolling, and then talk about calling each other from there. You two are obviously comfortable with one another, so a simple text shouldn't be a big deal.
Text them, and then chit chat for a bit, then ask him if he wants to talk.
Luck!
2007-01-29 06:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the chance and communicate with him. He may be going through the same thing wondering if he should call. Talk with him about your feelings, but take it slow. Get to know him before starting a relationship. Perhaps you could ask him to meet you somewhere for lunch one day. If he is interested in you as well, things will move from there. Good luck to you.
2007-01-29 06:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by fly guy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
perhaps he wants to keep in touch with you as well...you may text him first but keep things light..and if he replies, then you'll know its good sign and you may continue...but don't ask him if he's interested in you as directly as that...i think it can damage your friendship if he's not in the least interested..let him make the first move..but if he does not reply after a couple of days, then am sorry but its bad sign...
2007-01-29 06:34:27 · answer #4 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U shuldnt stop mailin him as if u stop he'll think dat u r not intersted in him & dont even want to talk to him.so dont stop talkin to him & go on with ur talk
2007-01-29 06:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by Daksh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he gave you his number maybe he wants you to call.
2007-01-29 06:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh for gosh sakes...he gave you his number...call and talk to him...or continue to email...friendships develop over time...don't push it...just let it happen...good luck
2007-01-29 06:29:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋