I have some problems in my sexuallity trend .really i think i am gay,but i dont want to belive it,what shoud i do.....?I m very prosperous both in my education and my job , but this secret bother me so much....what should i do?which doctor should i refer?can i cure my trends with drug?help me please.
2007-01-28 22:01:23 · 5 answers · asked by gentellman1983 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Most doctors agree that a person's sexual orientation is fixed by the age of three, and trying to change it can cause more problems than it offers solutions. Don't assume you are "sick" or that there is something wrong with you. No drug can "cure" homosexuality as it is not a disease. What is diseased are cultures which try to force everyone to be the same way in all things, and which punish people who don't conform.
Maybe you can talk over your feelings with a trusted friend.
Also, you don't say why you "don't want to believe" you might be gay. Why not? Does your culture persecute gay people? If so, you may have to go outside your culture to find the support you need. It can be a frightening thought, but if you are gay, then trying to suppress it will only make you lonely and unhappy.
Good luck.
2007-01-29 01:11:39 · answer #1 · answered by Sharon B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recently found out that chinese medicine doctors attribute it to a yang deficiency in the right kidney. As you might already know, yang is the masculine energy and if you are low in it, obviously you would be higher in yin (female energy) that is causing you to seek men. This is what I heard, I don't know if it's right or not, and I'm not against homosexuals in any way, but just thought I'd let you know. Look into it; consult some Traditional Chinese Medicine clinics, see what they say.
Cheers.
2007-01-29 06:10:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all in the mind the best thing would be always staying around with opposite sex and try to become closer with them and if possible have a relationship with them as frequently as possible ( even daily) . This would satiate your desires just like hunger which we kill by eating cucumber or other low calorie foods to avoid eating fatty foods similarly when you tire yourself with oppposite sex then your desire for gay would vanish by itself. The foremost thing is stop worrying and thinking about you being gay as thinking only returns you to be a gay . All the best.
2007-01-29 06:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If yer gay yer gay... only way to find out really is try it.. Umm and No I dont think there is any "cure" for gay.. dont think theres any cure for straight either...
2007-01-29 06:07:05 · answer #4 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. You are who you are, and that can't be changed.
2007-01-29 06:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. NoneofYourbusiness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋