I have some problems in my sexuallity trend .really i think i am gay,but i dont want to belive it,what shoud i do.....?I m very prosperous both in my education and my job , but this secret bother me so much....what should i do?which doctor should i refer?can i cure my trends with drug?help me please.
2007-01-28 21:51:24 · 9 answers · asked by gentellman1983 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
What happens behind closed doors is nobody's business.....
My best friend is gay, came out a couple years ago....the realization and transition was tough on him, psychologically.....but he got through it. He took some med for anxiety/depression to help. But he IS gay.
Being gay is not a disease, it is an orientation. It is something where the only "cure" is to live a lie.
Acceptance is the path to happiness.....be willing to be different and you'll discover your true self.
2007-01-28 22:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, first of all, your sexuality does not define the type of person you are. Secondly, most of my friends who are male and are gay or even bi sexual are all very intelligent and wealthy people, so you are not alone.
My friends all seek out people of their own sexuality, through the web there are various places you can go to meet people, not for sex, but just to converse and see if it is your cup of tea. Then, it leads to going places like having coffee or out for dinner, as a group for safety in numbers is the key.
You could, if you felt more comfortable, go and see a psychologist who specialises in sexuality issues, they can then seek the answers out in you..for you.
Relax, you are not alone :)
2007-01-29 06:13:26 · answer #2 · answered by caz_v8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drugs wont definitely help =l just trust in urself. if ur a real gay that is... think, do u like a guy or a gal? do u like game boys like? do u think like a guy? and imagine first what'll happen if u tell the world the truth. if u think its not that bad then go on. but if there are circumstances on the way, just wait a little longer to reveal ur secret... or just try this.. (my technique) ask sum1 like: "What will u do if i told u i was gay?" then if there is a negative or positive reaction, think about it first then go for it. our class teacher, hu actually admitted in the class that he's gay, after it he became our favorite teacher. we liked him a lot more becoz of his bravery. so go for it!
2007-01-29 06:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by crissame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being gay is not a trend. it's a choice, and if you want to live that way, do it. there is nothing wrong with it, but it doesn't go away with drugs. you can still be "prosperous" if you want to be. i think you need to learn more about yourself. you seem confused.
2007-01-29 06:00:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In every man's life this part really happens. This cannot be cured by any medicine
This can only be resolved by holding on to your belief that you are a man. Do not doubt yourself, surely one day you'll realize that you are really a man.
2007-01-29 06:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by helpless kid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are gay, I'm like sorry to hear that, I won't dislike you, I just don't want to know the detials of GAY peoples "FUN". I have two lesbian friends, they always tease me by yelling what they did at me while I close my ears, I always say to them "I'll striaghten you two chicks out", they really don't pay any attention to me, it's a funny relationship for sure but, never stressful.
2007-01-29 06:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get counseling. If you are gay and don't want the lifestyle, you will be able to get help living single. If you are not gay, you will get the confusion cleared up.
2007-01-29 06:01:55 · answer #7 · answered by LINDA G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are worried about it, talk to a trusted psychologist or counselor.
Your scholarly achievements in life have nothing to do with your sexual orientation.
2007-01-29 14:38:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just live your life and be who you are.
2007-01-29 05:56:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋