I want to have sex with my boyfriend all the time but some times when i'm gone out shopping for the day he will watch a porn movie and get off to that instead of having sex with me when he knows that i want to have sex with him? Could you guys tell me why some of you do this?
2007-01-28 21:48:34 · 14 answers · asked by CHICILBABY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IF YOU'VE LET HIM KNOW IT'S PROBLEM THEN ITS PROBABLY SOMETHING THAT HE'S INTO. SO NEXT TIME COMPROMISE! IF YOU COME HOME AND NOTICE HE'S WATCHING A PORNO THEN WATCH IT WITH HIM AND ENTERTAIN HIM AT THE SAME TIME HE WILL BE SCRATCHING TWO ITCHES A ONCE!HE HE AND YOU'LL GET YOURS TOO!
2007-01-28 22:04:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has insecurities. In front of the porn movie, he is in control. With you, he obviously doesn't feel in control.
Ask him, the next time, what he wants out of sex, and encourage him to "dominate" a session.
Maybe he feels that you are too dominating ... let him be the boss for once, and see how he reacts to that. Get him to fulfill his fantasies with you, then once he feels that he is on top he may feel more comfortable having sex with you.
Another idea is to suggest watching the porn with him and you can do the rest, if you get my gist!
2007-01-28 21:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because fantasy sex with a porn movie is obviously more gratifying than the real thing with you! I can't ever remember dating a woman that I found less attractive than my fist, so you two need to talk; maybe you're too uptight or maybe he's got issues with you that we don't know about!!!
2007-01-28 21:58:38 · answer #3 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ur boyfriend wants u to wait. Let him wait now. And dont show him that u want to have sex with him.. Seduce him in a way that he gets excited but not in a way that u want to have it. Cross in front of him in a bra, or in a shirt only or naked, but dont try to approach him. Walk by, just walk by.. He will surely get attracted. He watches porn movies behind ur back, u watch them in front of him.. Love urself whilew seeing one, but dont let him do the favours for u.. Finally he will beg for u.. Happy life.. good luck.. (Seriously ur bf is such a dork) !!! Anyways take care
2007-01-28 21:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by Pulse 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem...he plays WoW whenever he is home...till bedtime..and before I come home from work, he does his business from a porn site. I am dying here...it is an issue..Good luck.
2007-01-28 21:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by christal104 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you rather do, have relations with your boyfriend or go shopping? Maybe you should consider the initial rather than the latter.
2007-01-28 21:57:16 · answer #6 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he can't wait.. You shouldn't keep him waiting. If a guy wants to have sex, go immediately..
2007-01-28 21:58:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i am not a guy but i can say that most of the time it is because of the convience of it....sometimes you just want to do it alone....it is nothing against our mates we just want to get off and be done with it..
2007-01-28 22:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by kaseymay_2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is loaded, full of spunk, has to release it, just fire up the ole porn when you get back, and get him going again, he will evben last longer, stop whinning and start riding.
2007-01-28 21:53:29 · answer #9 · answered by TEXASMALE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they need some mix and match :p
2007-01-28 22:42:18 · answer #10 · answered by ranselbiru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋