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I am a guy.I know how male orgasm is like....
I dont know whether my partner has an orgasm or not.
How can you tell if she is having an orgasm...

What should she feel like...is this the same as guys?

2007-01-28 21:42:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

i can ask her but i dont know what to ask

2007-01-28 21:46:01 · update #1

16 answers

if you can not tell the difference then she isn't having one. lol

2007-01-28 21:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by The Pig! 5 · 3 1

Guy and Girl orgasms could not be more different. Guys ejaculate with 4 strong bursts of semen followed by a few weaker ones. This phenomenon happens in a matter of 5-10 seconds and is the climax for the male. The male orgasm is a mainly physical one, where the pleasure is derived from releasing something that has been building pressure. One out of every eight girls has the ability to ejaculate during orgasm. However, the ejaculate is really more of a product of the REAL orgasm. The female orgasm is much more intense than the male and also takes place in a duration of 15-30 seconds. Also strong convulsions shortly afterwards have been known to take place. As opposed to the male orgasm, the female orgasm is equally based (if not more so) on emotion. While the man feels physical pleasure during orgasm, the female receives both physical and emotional. The female orgasm itself is a series of muscle convulsions that are often accompanied with loud screaming/moaning. Although girls have been known to fake orgasms, you can tell if one is real if you can feel her tightly clenching around your penis (while inside her) while she is climaxing. Also, you can see if she produced ejaculte. But unfortunately, screaming/moaning alone is not proof. But take my word for it. If you have to ask, you'll never know (she didn't have one) If you are doing your job right, she'll be the first to tell you.

2007-01-29 06:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by Soundguy 2 · 0 0

Guess you'll have to be born a woman some day and find out wont ya. Women are said to have more pleasure than men since they were said have a higher pain tolerance than men (A belief than didn't recede in popularity until late 50's). Eyes are supposed to be a rolling and and same distorted face as male. If hers don't then hmmm guess not having one. Best of all thing I can tell you be you shouldn't be having sex with someone who won't tell you when they are having an orgasm by communicating this to you by an agreed upon movement of some sort to let you know. Like nails or "Baby I'm having one eeeeuughh".

2007-01-29 05:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by Dane Aqua 5 · 0 0

She takes longer to do her thing than you do. Once she did it once, there will be 4 or 5 in quick succession. Not like a man, once you are done, you are done. Woman are lucky.

How can you tell? Well, it is wet in there. Real wet.
It is puffy and she won't let go of you if you are inside her. Moaning and groning (real ones of course, some are good at faking this so watch out).

The juice is not like yours. It is sticky but more watery than yours.
Once she starts, there will be contractions inside. She continues to come for the next 4 or 5 times. You can actually feel this in your penis if you are still inside her.

I do not know why it is like this in Nature, man comes long before woman comes. Cruel isn't it? This is why you have to "prepare" her for at least 15 to 20 minutes before you do your act. Can you hold that long? Ha, That's the big question.

2007-01-29 05:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 0 0

Well...I'm not a guy so I have no idea if it is the same. But women have two places they can experience climax. You can have a vaginal orgasm - which is much more internal (and harder, at least for me, to achieve).

The second, clitoral orgasm, where slitumating the clit achives it.

In both cases, they feel like a wave of absolute pleasure starts at your toes and works it's way up. If you achieve one and keep going, you will soon experience another. Which is more intense.

Good times.

2007-01-29 05:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0 0

If u and ur partner discuss anything about under the sky...openly either u can ask her...suppose if u are not that much experienced in sex ....and during the sex u could feel the way she behave. (if she reached ) she may hold,or hug u very tightly,or u could hear some sound she murmur or she starts breath strongly and immediately after she come she kiss u affectionately ...it all varies person to person.

2007-01-29 05:58:02 · answer #6 · answered by 17and16hot 1 · 0 0

is she faking it? i bet you'd be able to tell.

if it's a little TOO well-orchestrated and she seems to be trying to convince you it was real, then it was fake. if she has one EVERY time, then she's faking. if she seems a little loud, it's probably fake. if it's a little too perfect, it might be fake.

for me they sort of come as a little suprise, and i'm actually a lot more quiet when i'm having an orgasm than one would expect. you'll probably be able to tell by the muscle twitches and spasms, they're fairly random, like even in the legs and stuff.

2007-01-29 05:48:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You should be able to feel spasms inside her. When a female orgasms their vaginal wall (full of muscles) spasms continuusly during the orgasm, so when you are inside her you should be able to feel this, and also there should be spasms happening through her body as well.

2007-01-29 05:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by sexyfullmoonfairy 1 · 0 0

If there is enough light to see her neck, there will be a sudden blushing of her neck.

2007-01-29 05:48:26 · answer #9 · answered by TE 5 · 1 0

you should be able to feel her vagina contracting around your penis....if not that then you should just ask her.....if you are going down on her then put a finger inside and you will be able to feel it then....

2007-01-29 06:10:33 · answer #10 · answered by kaseymay_2000 2 · 0 0

sudden warmth, and wetter, she may start quivering and moaning, you will feel hard contractions if you are inside her- dont worry they wont hurt you!

2007-01-29 05:47:59 · answer #11 · answered by kryptonite 1 · 0 0

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