I've been with a woman that I could pleasure many times and in many ways. But the one I'm current with can't get to an orgasm by any means. She said that she has never had one, not even with her exhusband and I feel like having sex with her is aways a challenge. Dispite the fact the many women fake an orgasm to pleasure their mates, what are the secrets behind this mistery?
2007-01-28 21:28:37 · 7 answers · asked by reeftanksforall.com 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know why this is but I am one of the hard to get to *** women. I can it just takes forever. Lots of foreplay. Also make sure and reassure her that she has all the time in the world so just relax and try not to focus on climaxing, just enjoy the ride. Sometimes I get too focused on getting there I just can't. Sometimes I am just not in the mood to try that hard but I still enjoy having intercourse with my husband even if I do not orgasm. It might seem annoying but from someone who knows how difficult it can be to orgasm, be patient.
2007-01-28 22:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by crackermelons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your tonque down their on her clit and stay their until she comes. I have yet to meet a woman i couldn't make have a orgasm doing oral on her. It's impossible for them not to reach climax if you stay busy on her clit with your tonque. Tie her down if you have to and with legs spread, and concentrate on that clit until she reaches climax. if this doesn't work, contact me and i'll come show you how it's done.
2007-01-29 05:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her oral sex and do not stop until she climaxes. Ask her to guide you and let you know where you should be stimulating her.
2007-01-29 05:35:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it depends on how comfortable she is...and relaxed. Relaxation is the key.
2007-01-29 05:34:11 · answer #4 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women can & some cant....
U just have to accept it ....
Orgasm isnt the only thing thats there in sex..
u can still please eatch other
2007-01-29 05:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
practice practice practice.....try a vibrator and keep trying until she experiences one...she will always love you for that....good luck
2007-01-29 05:40:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about her partner.
2007-01-29 07:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋