asking god questions?

Question

my uncle killed him self in march, my best male freind killed him self in april,my father died in may, my mother was in a bad accident in june she is still recoving, i could not handle my job and walked out in november. my girl freind left me in december and i got i trouble with the law they are now revocing my probation for a crime i did back in 1999 my ex girlfriend is now seeing other man and the last time i talk to her she told me she was very happy with him and that she hated me . i broke my right arm about 4 weeks ago and then had to move out of my house today because i am not working i had to move back in with my mother and i am 29 years old. my ex thought i was cheating on her because we had not made love in a while and t was shuting her out after the death of my father. i did not mean to i was just in a lot of pain then. i love her very much and want her back but i dont know how to get her to talk to me after the loss of my father and now her i feel like i am missing some thin

Answer 1

Sounds like you've had more than your fair share.

But, you gotta keep on keepin' on. And, it is more than ok to ask God questions. But, you gotta listen with your heart, your intuition, and your soul. Ears are useless when talking with God.

You will see and learn all you need to know........if only you will let yourself.

Remember, everything is for a reason. Have faith that God knows what he is doing. We learn so much from hardships. And, what doesn't kill us makes us stronger. So, just look at how strong you really are! God bless you. Things will get better. Pray and ask for Gods help.

Answer 2

Dearest dekers,
First off I am so sorry for all of your losses... Sometimes I am a firm believer that God allows such tragedies to be grouped together cause we are already suffering.... I too have endured suicides, loss of both parents, 2 children, yata yata, but the most important thing right now is you.... As far as having to move back in with your Mom, I am sure she needs you as she is recovering from this bad car accident, & let's face it, ain't nobody like your Mama, or at least that's how I feel... A far as the girlfriend, I say if she can't understand your pain, let her go as she doesn't deserve you... Someone who has not endured such loss has no idea, or either they missed that empathy link in their gene pool... I am not exactly sure what to say about the probation, just plead with the courts of your situation, & maybe they will be lenient... God does not cause these things to happen to us, life does, & God is just there to pick up the pieces, or that's my belief... I saw a sign at a church just yesterday, & it said, God can mend a heart, but He needs all of the pieces... Just pray, pray, & pray some more, but TRULY beleive that He will help you & He will... Don't give up, if you don't hang in there for anybody else, hang in there for your Mama, as there is nothing that compares to the loss of your children....
Take care now ya hear?

Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well dance.

Answer 3

Sex without marriage is a scam. That's where you two made one mistake: acting like married people without really giving yourselves to each other. That means putting on the wedding rings and making the vows. Now you're hurting from the separation. Sorry, man.

By the way, get yourself a mental-health evaluation: if you're 29 and not working, and you're dad's died, and your uncle killed himself, you might have depression or some other condition. If that's the case, getting it treated might be a good idea. God likes it when we take proper care of ourselves and each other: after all, he made you. Help your mom too, if you can.

Answer 4

I feel for you. Normally I don't believe in organized religon, but in your case I think you should go to the religious institution of your choice and reach out for support and prayers. I'm sending you love and light right now. God bless you. I'm sorry for your losses. Peace.

Answer 5

MINUS YOUR MOTHER'S ACCIDENT AND THE BROKE ARM I'VE EXPERIENCED YOUR LIFE AT 21! I'VE SAT AND WONDERED AND TRIED OVER AND OVER TO FIGURE OUT WHAT AM I DOING WRONG. AND THE MORE I TRIED TO FIGURE IT OUT THE DEEPER MY WOUNDS WOULD BE. I'VE PICKED UP A BIBLE, I'VE DONE THE CHURCH THING AND I PRAY LIKE THERE WILL BE NO TOMORROW(LITERALLY) BUT LET ME TELL YOU WHAT HELPED ME ONE NIGHT I WROTE A LETTER AND EXPRESSED ALL MY FEELING (NOT HOLDING ANYTHING BACK) AND I ADDRESSED IT TO GOOD. I KNOW IT SOUNDS SILLY BUT ITS JUST PRAYING ON PAPER! I LET HIM KNOW WHAT I FELT. I COULDN'T HANDLE THE PAIN I ENCOUNTERED AND I ALSO DIDN'T THINK I DESERVED IT. AFTER I FINISHED I READ IT FEW TIMES. I NOTICED ME ANGER, MY GRIEF, MY SADNESS, MY BLAME, AND I ALSO SEEN MY WAY OUT.ITS THERE SO TRY IT AND AFTER THAT STICK THE LETTER IN YOUR BIBLE AND PLACE EVERYTHING IN GOD! BLESS YOU

Answer 6

yup..
u really missing something....
u missed to find peace in ur heart..sincere in urself,,n u have to go back to the basic, dear....
u should be extremely patient with what u r experiencing right now..take it step by step..
wait......
n i hope u will recover from that situation....

GOD bless.

Answer 7

I don't really understand what your asking.But so sorry to hear about all your looses.Pray for Help.Good Luck!

Answer 8

What have you done in life to deserve such?

Answer 9

Tell her so.
Call her.
Wish you well