I met this wonderfull guy through a friend right. He's totally awesome & ya other things are way awesome too but anyway, im falling for this guy way hard! but i have a little dillema, he lives in Poland & has to go back in June/July so yes the question id like u guys to help me with is - should i go or should i stay?! i mean i dnt wana get hurt but he's leaving so i am gona get hurt but its all just awesome, i dono im so confused?! he has to go back & complete his studies, he still has like 3 years to go! so ya, what do i do?!?! i dont want to get all emotional on this guy coz i know im gona get hurt but i know he has feelings for me, he got all grumpy when i was dancing with his best friend on friday! so please some advice!!
2007-01-28 21:20:22 · 6 answers · asked by Mandy H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not that i wana move there, its just what should i do!! tell him we should just be friends, but then itll b akward or do i just go on with the realtionship we've had for like 3weeks now?!?
2007-01-28 21:29:19 · update #1
LIFE is a lesson school is over at the end. As I look back as my lifr play out in front of me. These STRAIGHT JACKED MEMORIES OF THIS INSANITY OF WHYS. HIND SITE BEING 20/20 IF YOUR IN LOVE NO QUESTIONS THEIR IS A SPIRITUA BOND NOT JUST THE PHYSICAL ATRACTION BINDING. THAN GO FOR IT IF THE CULTURE SHOCK DOSENT KILL YOU I SAY GO!!!
IF YOU ONLY THINK INT FOR EVER AND DONT FEEL ITs FOREVER THAN STAY . EITHER WAY YOUR GONNA FEEL THE PAIN OF SEPERATION>
2007-01-28 21:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep saying you don't want to get emotional. But to me, it looks as if it's too late; you already are. When he goes back to Poland, you will be in a long distance relationship. It will be difficult, at best, to maintain the relationship. Not impossible, but difficult. Don't want to get hurt? I wish I could help you there, but I can't. Unless his feelings for you are especially strong, you probably have already set yourself up for a fall. The good news? You'll live! Even if you do get hurt, you'll rise up and go on with your life! I wish you all the best.
2007-01-28 21:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by Gee Wye 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Polish guy? I am assuming you are his age and he was just visiting or something... So you are both young, in your 20s, possibly otherwise unattached. Do you speak Polish??? It's not the easiest language to learn...
2007-01-28 21:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by xena790 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just met him, yet you want to move to poland with him in 6 mths? stay where you are now. there is no one else you know there. what happens when you break up?
2007-01-28 21:27:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in your own country.
When love flies and man is in his country , they all change.
2007-01-28 21:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by Mmmmm 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont go.
2007-01-28 21:28:07 · answer #6 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋