I have had really strong feelings for this this guy 2 years older then me, the only problem is that we are really good family friends and i'm not even sure he has feelings for me in return... and if i make a move and he rejects me ( or even if we go out) it will make it really ackward. I don't know what to do... its driving me clrazy please help!
2007-01-28 21:04:39 · 9 answers · asked by Pixy575 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there's no problem with that! my boyfriend and i are close family friends.. in fact his parents are best friends with mine and nothing's gone wrong. he's almost two years older than me and i liked him before i knew he liked me which took a while for me to figure out. i say you should take it slow.. be friends with him, not with the idea of trying to hook up, but to get to know him better. he might see a side of you he really likes and may make the move before you do (like my boyfriend) or you might decide the time has come (dun dun dun) and you spill the beans.
if he rejects you, dont take it personally.. stay friends with him and seeing as you guys are family friends let it slide and remain in the past, you have nothing to lose, you'll already be as close as you need to be.
if parents are a problem, just dont panic. hehe, maintain your friendship in front of them and come clean when you're ready. dont worry so much =)
2007-01-28 21:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a minor and he is not, find some one your own age to start with. This could also ruin both families as being friends. If the guy had feeling for you, I am sure you would already know it. He apparently has seen enough to know that your are what is called jail bait (a minor) and will not even take the chance of getting in trouble. I respect the guy and I do not even know him, he has good common sense. I think your mistaking a crush on the guy for love. There is a big difference. Move on and for it.
2007-01-29 05:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh hun...its a really tricky situation hey =(? i can safely say iv been thru that 2... wel...first u need 2 ask urself if he's given u any signals? duz he...
- stare at u
- tease u
- make an extra special effort to talk to u
- tries to impress u or get ur attention?
if so...then mayb u cud tell him u like him, or wait 4 him 2 make a move.
but if your not entirely sure, and u really wanna avoid the awkwardness, then mayb try n move on. i kno it wont b easy coz u probably see him around alot, but u will move on in tym, i promis =) itl get easier hun! gud luck!
2007-01-29 05:17:03 · answer #3 · answered by noodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your hormones to calm down
and if you are really close friends with him doing things that a couple would usually do before they go out wont tell you anything well actually it could if he acts like how your friends would act when u hang out wtih him then he doesnt like you and if he acts the opposite then he does and you probably have to tell him but make sure he likes you first!
2007-01-29 05:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dayuumn...atlist i knw m not da only one...i m crazy in love with thiz family frend as well...but he doesnt seem to even notice.i've tried everything...i think he even knws...but just ignored it...so i figured he wasnt da 1...after a while met thiz dude and now m ina 7 month relationship...but if you really love him then i reckon you wait...and tym will tell...get him to notice you....but that doesnt min you dnt be yourself .k........soo i hope you have a lovely relationship and all the best!!
2007-01-29 05:11:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait....try to become gud frnds with him.....thats the best way to get to kno him.....Coz communicating with him is the only way to find out if he likes u..and if he likes u the way u like him...
This way, u will find out soon enuf, so u save urself from the awkwardness that would happen if he doesnt like u that way...
All the Best!
2007-01-29 05:10:18 · answer #6 · answered by weirdnik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good grief
for crying out loud, your 16!
relax, stop trying to grow up fast, you can never go back, he'll be around.
2007-01-29 05:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by countryboy1959 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find out his feelings first.If he responds,go ahead.
2007-01-29 05:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then, just go and ask him..
think positive, at least u've tried than do nothing.
2007-01-29 05:10:43 · answer #9 · answered by frozentrain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋