my best friend had a bf and they broke up last year coz he wasn't faithfull.....and they decided to be just friends....and he saw me once with her...and wanted to take my num...but i refused and told him that i don't give my num to anyone....then he asked my email...my friend told me it's ok..and he will be like my brother not more....and he took my mail..and we started to talk..and i liked him...and my friend had a new bf who is a great person and he loves her so much..her ex bf started to tell her that he miss her..and he was a fool when he let her go..and he still loves her..i didn't tell my friend about my feelings towards him..and she told me that they were about to have sex..but she stopped him..i can't believe it..he's a very nice guy..i can't imagine that he's really doin' this..i feel that my friend doesn't want me to fall in love with him..i feel that she's lying to me..i need help plz..i know that i can't explain the stuation very well but plz try to understand me..thnx
2007-01-28 20:32:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
should i leave him compeletly..or stay talking to him like friends???????????
2007-01-28 20:38:33 · update #1
1st of all whaen i said that this is the biggest prob it was just a way to express the stuation was bad to me..............
i'm not comming here to talk about politics...
MY OWN PROBS ARE THE BIGGEST PROBS IN THE WORLD FOR MEEEE
2007-01-28 20:45:24 · update #2
sometimes it's a good idea to just draw the line in the sand and just stay on the safe side. sure, life's about taking risks, but some risks need to be calculated ones. the way i see it, you stand to lose more than you may gain, therefore you need to stand tall and walk proud. don't let this situation ruine you and a friendship. he sounds like he's playing the both of you. i just recently had a friend who went thru the same situation. my advice to him at the time was,..... be prepared to have your heart broken, and not a day later he told me just that.. she was playing the ex, my friend and also leaving it open to the dating game! i hope this helps.
2007-01-28 20:48:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would agree that this is by far the biggest problem in the world!
*I mean the US is only in 2 wars at the same time
*Unemployment is down
*People are dieing in the streets at the hands of gang bangers
Yep you have the biggest problem in the world!
2007-01-28 20:41:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say that if you think this is the biggest problem in the world then you have a very small world My advice is to read a newspaper and forget the guy.
2007-01-28 20:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by noddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you donot believe your best friend beacuse you want those things to be be wrong...
it is unlikely that your best friend is lying to you...
there can be two possibilities :
he says he loves your best friend .. so probably he is keeping in touch with you and being nice to you because of her...
well he was unfaithful eariler for which your best friend dumped him.. so it might be so that now he wants to play with both of you....
he doesnot sound like a nice guy. .. if he really likes you then he will not tell ur best that he likes her.. think about it.. you might end up getting hurt, if u endup liking him too much and if he doesnot feel the same...
2007-01-28 21:15:57 · answer #4 · answered by hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you doubting your friend over a boy, a boy who was unfaithful? What kind of friend are you for even contemplating getting with your friends ex? I suggest you both keep away from him for your own good's as it will only end up with tears for all of you. At least this way you and your friend will remain friends.
2007-01-28 20:45:52 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EX- boyfriends are a NO go zone for relationships! Now stop acting like the victim! If your girl finds out ur in Deep s**t... excuse my french
2007-01-28 20:39:21 · answer #6 · answered by Linger 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Present your problem to the senate since its the biggest in the world. Anyway, leave this dude, he jus out to hump and have fun, unless you are into it as well
2007-01-29 00:28:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erm... In relationships..... make out is not a prob.. and what makes u think that ur friend is lying to u when she doesnt knows that u're in love with him???
2007-01-28 20:40:43 · answer #8 · answered by i_am_a_human_being 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah...that is the biggest problem in the world...forget about the cure for AIDS we have a crisis on our hands with this one.
2007-01-28 20:35:51 · answer #9 · answered by dreamzindigital_20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this man truely loved your friend in the 1st place he wouldn't have cheated on her sounds like to me this man and your friend don't know really who they want you deserve better
2007-01-28 20:37:49 · answer #10 · answered by precious_52803 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋