im in love with an asian guy but his family dont approve?

Question

because hes asian they say he has to have relationships with his own race or they will dis inherit him, he loves me to wot can we do?

Answer 1

It's a hard situation but in time hopefully they will realize how important u r in his life. Id go with my heart if they love him they will not disown him. good luck

Answer 2

Bless your heart. Im an older woman and to even see this happening in 2007 tells me that the world still hasnt changed that much.
Knowing what I know now Id leave that man alone. The chances of them changing their minds is not going to happen. If you were exceptable then it would be only on their grounds and I couldnt see an existence in their family above and beyond what they wanted you to exist. Plus who wants to be in a controlling family like that. I wouldnt. Its going to hurt but later on your going to realize it was for the best .

Answer 3

I wish you luck I find that two things that asian men lack when it comes to dating non-asian:

what others will think especially the domineering asian mother
and that you are not asian.

I have to give asian females credit they will marry with or with out family approval.

Other words large percentage of asian men lack balls in marriage and dating.

Answer 4

im asian . n i think hes in those really strict asian families , where they valued guys more (more so if he's their first son or only son ) . so mayhaps u need to talk to him n ask him to have a talk with his parents as to how to solve this problem . i dont think they will actually totally cut him off . If u two were in luv enough i dont think he will mind the disinheritance ....n start up on his own two feet .
So gd luck !

Answer 5

Wow, I'm sorry to hear about this dilemna. It's unfortunate his parents are so bigoted. Maybe over time they'll learn to accept and love you, but don't hold your breath waiting. Just support your man. He's going to be caught in the middle and feeling a lot of pain.

Answer 6

accept what they say but dont give up. try to bond with his family.. just dont suck up too much because they'll probably see through it. i think in situations like this, you have to make really hard decisions.. do you love him enough to be able to take care of him even after his family disown him and will he be happy? or would u both be better off with him and his family and for you to start again?

i know that's VERY daunting because when you love someone so much you would hate to lose them under ANY circumstances.. but sometimes when you love someone, you have to be able to sacrifice things for your love.. so just think about what you want to do and how you want things to turn out against how they might turn out. i know he loves you alot but just take a while to think about whats best for the both of you...

i hope everything turns out okay, good luck!!

Answer 7

Family are very important to the Asian and they tend to be more conservative then western..In my opinion it is almost impossible unless he want to take that risk. so it's his decision but I think he has to make that decision fast because the longer the harder for both of you...

Answer 8

i'm in love with an asian guy too- he's japanese. I haven't met his family yet but if i were in a situation like that i'd fight for our love. you can try to do things that will please his parents and show them how worthy you are to be their son's wife and daughter in law.

Answer 9

Good God ,you dont have anything to do with him of course.they stick to there own people nothing is wrong with that you would ruin him and his relationship with his family try to get over it I know it is a hard thing to do, trust God, pray, let it go , good luck

Answer 10

Better avoid. Asians are very family oriented. You may be left alone.