It wasn't like that in the beginning of my dating experience, but after a really painful break-up I felt somewhat empty for about a year. And now many guys fall for me, the problem is they are the ones whom I don't like! And the guys who I like just seem not to notice me :-( What is wrong with me?
2007-01-28 19:46:01 · 9 answers · asked by LadyLike 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, it may be your approach and you are lucky that you are sexy. But with regard to the guys that you like, may be you are trying the hard way to get them. Just be natural, your self and cool while you are around them. You will soon see the difference.
Good Luck!!
2007-01-28 21:20:13 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's life. I'm married but when I was single that seemed to happen quite a bit to me. It's like when you're out at a club or bar or something and there's a hot guy that you like and you're trying to figure how to approach him but you have some guy that you don't like that keeps pestering you. There's nothing wrong with you. Just be glad that you attract men. Think of how depressing it would be if you went out and nobody was attracted to you.
2007-01-29 04:08:37 · answer #2 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you! Carefully watch the signs you put out, the verbal clues, non verbal body language, and the places you hang out! You may be putting out signs that attract the "wrong" kind of guys(according to your bench mark!!), and may be you are hanging out at places these kind of guys frequent!!
Changing these could change the responses you get. To change the signs you put out, your "self-talk" and thinking process must reflect the attitude you want to attract!!!
2007-01-29 03:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by prettycoolguy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That happens a lot . have you ever heard that song " love stinks "
the lines in particular " you love her , but she loves him, and he loves somebody else" There isn't anything WRONG with you its the game , its just the way t goes.
But sometimes when you are down , misery attracts misery.
2007-01-29 03:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by primamaria04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not you, there isn't anything wrong with you! Your defenses are down. I know, I'm an enabler and my defenses have been down all my life! Stick to what you know is right in your heart. You will find the right one.
2007-01-29 03:52:34 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sad but true, everything about finding love is wrong,love does sucks,dont know it is bad luck or wasnt meant to be.
2007-01-29 04:00:20 · answer #6 · answered by aqua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not choose a food what is in the table. how comes those food will vanish in your sight? it is like what you have now.
2007-01-29 03:52:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must a ugly blonde and thinks your a hot and not pplain. get with men that are your level.
2007-01-29 03:51:18 · answer #8 · answered by ihateacaf0 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your proly trying to hard with the guys you do like...
2007-01-29 03:50:29 · answer #9 · answered by sammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋