I'd like to have a gf but am a little overweight and am losing weight but how can i convince a girl to look past my weight problem i'm not 400lbs i weigh 280 and i'm 6ft tall. i know i'm fat i just trying to figure out if my female problem has more to do with me having no confidence
2007-01-28 19:28:45 · 22 answers · asked by FottiK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know it is so cliche but LOOKS DON'T MATTER... my husband is 5'5" and I am 5'9" ... ppl think we are crazy... but i love him, he was my best friend and one day i leaned over and told him "i think i love you" he smiled back and said he loved me, too. i am a country girl and he is an asian guy from seattle, we are complete opposites but we love each other and the sex is great!!!!
2007-01-28 19:33:21 · answer #1 · answered by Unemployed MBA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe me when i say this.there is nothing more frustrating than to go out into the world hoping that someone special will notice you.i am over weight too and i have been working so hard i have lost about 35 pounds in 3 months.there still seems no way to find a guy out there who will look beyond the body.the fact that i am still going on loosing more and more weight and looking best is that i have not lost the hope that some how someone somewhere is looking for me and no one else.be yourself and that's is what is important and if the girl says she will not be your gf because your not a guy like tom cruise or brad Pitt she is not worth wasting your love on.just keep patient and the right one will come your way.good luck on that.
2007-01-28 20:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by sweet is my code name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 06:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm about 5lb lighter than yourself and I have no problems, now.
It is all about confidence. If you hide away in a corner you'll never get a girlfriend.
Be proud of who you are. You are losing weight anyway, keep up whatever you're doing.
But believe in yourself, and anything is possible.
2007-01-28 19:38:02 · answer #4 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you are not as fat as you are thinking. Because you are 6' tall. If you like a girl ... try for her sincerely... deffinitly... you will get her as your girl friend. Now a days... beauty,handsomeness is not a constraint for girls. But make her flat by letting know her that u r so caring about her. It really works. All the best.
2007-01-28 19:44:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're doing really well with the weight loss and if you are feeling better about yourself keep going with it. Just remember that being slim will not change who you are. So also work on being proud of your insides too. Being genuine will attract someone genuine. That's my simple advice. Good Luck.
2007-01-28 19:42:09 · answer #6 · answered by Lucy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, to be completely honest I love it when men have more meat on their bones. I am 5'4'' and weigh 120 I'm a size 6. I mean what girl wants a guy who is skinnier or as skinner as her? I mean come on men are suppossed to be the big protectors
2007-01-28 19:37:05 · answer #7 · answered by ProudToBeWhite 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a person truly wants to be with you, it's because of who you are, your personality, and how much you love them in return. Physical characteristics shouldn't matter. I know larger people who are in happy relationships, and their weight has never been an issue. You just have to find the right person.
2007-01-28 19:39:56 · answer #8 · answered by Yvette! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it does, and you can't find confidence in yourself through the eyes of another. Just keep working on yourself, and that right girl will come along who sees you for who you are, not what you look like.
2007-01-28 19:34:32 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am no doctor phil,but here's my input bro.
physical appearence does count in the game of attraction but what attracts most females to us,is our confidence.
thus ,give yourself confidence(it's already in you) and stop worrying about your weight.
if you are confident about you and how you look or think,females will look past your weight and the real you man!.
excercise though coz weight can also be detrimental to your health as it is to your confidence.
2007-01-28 19:37:52 · answer #10 · answered by Nceba K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i am a skinny person and i had the sexyest girl alive and she was red headed to and she left me for someone that ways 280+ pounds that she has known for 6 days exatly and she was with me for 2 years and we were friends for 3 years before that if he can do it so can you
edit: im not saying go steal someones girl please dont do that and if you stole mine please give her back
o and the danny guy below is right this heaver guy has more money then me and a working car mine broke down 4 days before she left me
2007-01-28 19:32:38 · answer #11 · answered by streetdestroyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋