I have been dating this guy for about a month, and I am completely smitten!! He is like my ideal guy. But I don't know if he really likes me. We hang out 2 or 3 times a week, and it's always great when we're together. And he calls me cute names like 'babe' and 'honey.' We talk just about every day. But, it seems like I am the one who always calls or texts him first. When I do call him, he's really sweet and says stuff like, "I'm glad you called. I really want to see you tonight." And there are times (like tonight) when I call him and he doesn't answer or call me back. He works full time and goes to school full time, so I know that he's super busy. I just don't know what to think. He seems really sincere, but I feel like I'm putting in most of the effort. What should I do? Do you think he really likes me??
2007-01-28 19:02:20 · 4 answers · asked by Sommer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Come on hon, this guy sounds like he is truly busy. just come right out and ask him." am I calling you to much? I'd hate to push you away" keep in mind that on top of work/school he probably has homework and friends. be careful or you will push him away us guys need alittle more room then you gals. Good luck
2007-01-28 19:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by quick8stang29 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes but perhaps he is shy or has been hurt or been down a long time.....while your best bet is to not rush for this may seem too abrupt he'll sense insecurities and never trust take your time and step aside see things in his life for awhile you may be suprised if its true love your seeking smitteness is all about admiring and taking your sweet time to know one another.
Listening to your heart and speaking with your actions he will see you and seek you both will know soon enough take care and all the best of luck.
Usually when a man says something romantic or is falling for you deep his suttle hints follow obsessively with lovers names like honey sweetheart sexy and Babe usually means he see's da two of you as one Everything he says is true but its all up to you remember that.
2007-01-29 03:16:47 · answer #2 · answered by Chi-Girli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably does, and wants to see how much you like him...Guys tend to appreciate it when the female does the calling, makes them feel wanted. Stop calling him, and see what happens, he'll probably miss you...if you can't handle that-Just tell him that you feel that he should initiate more often
2007-01-29 03:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by MrMeT00 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course he does. Give him a break though. Living every waking moment for a person is pretty stressful.
2007-01-29 03:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋