At one point we were the world to each other, and did everything together!I went to college 3 hrs away and we broke up but still had/have feelings for each other. We talk on the phone everyday, and she knows that she means the world to me. And she actually has a shrine of pictures of us covering her bedroom walls...I can't get her off my mind...ever...-yet she's "talking" to a guy she met at work who is kinda jealous of our relationship. I think the fact that i'm away from her has alot to do with why we arent together. She's the most real, beautiful, and fun girl I know. I miss her so bad that I could just hug her and hope i never have 2 let her go...oh yeah, and although shi's talking to another guy, i'm ranked highest in her friends lists on her web pages and she still has pictures of us posted online of us cuddling and kissing...What am I to do-I don't understand her, she still says I love you (but i know that doesn't mean "im in love with you"...What should I do/expect/assume?
2007-01-28 18:36:54 · 10 answers · asked by MrMeT00 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know it's hard, but all you can do is wait. If she still has those pictures posted, and hasn't taken them off, trust me, she still has feelings for you. Just because she's talking to someone else, it won't change her feelings for you, and her feelings will actually grow stronger for you because of it. The other guy is jealous because he knows this, and he also knows that he won't be able to keep her. So wait. Let that relationship die down, and in the meantime, keep letting her know how much you care and miss her by telephone. Call her in the morning to say have a great day,
and call her at night to ask her how her day went. (Believe me, the other guy isn't that thoughtful, or he wouldn't be jealous).
Before long, she will realize what she is missing and be back with you.
2007-01-28 18:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by classyjazzcreations 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, you wrote a book! First, she already met and knew the guy before you broke up. It is the reason that she was acting strange and the reason that you treated her badly. A woman can not turn off love in a short time and go with a new man. Either the man existed already for a while, or she is telling you a lie about not loving you. When a woman says she wants to only be your friend, then she is not connected to you at all. Or this is the lie that makes you go away. I suggest that you read some of the websites that tell you "how to get your girlfriend back". So search using these words. They will tell you what you need to know. She is having a "rebound" relationshi now, so she can get over you. This guy is probably not good. She just wants somebody different so she can forget you. Stop whining and stop telling her that you love her. If you love her after she does all these things, then she will see that she can do anything and you will still want her and cry to have her back. The websites will tell you to stop all contact with her. No phone calls, no texts, no emails, no nothing. And do not reply to her texts or phone calls. You have to change how you act, and you have to start now. Just read what they say and do it. Maybe you can get her back. All the women above think the same as your girlfriend.
2016-03-29 07:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this would be a good opportunity for both of you to explore different options. The distance will tell you if you 2 are really meant for eachother. My advice is to not sit around missing her while she is out exploring. Go out, have fun, meet new people. You may just find someone who is even more real, more beautiful and even more fun to be with. But if you never get out there, you will never know. I know it's hard and I'm not trying to make light of the situation, I went through the same thing several years ago. Luckily, I didn't sit around waiting, though, because in the meantime I found my husband! The one I was actually meant to be with. Good luck and most of all, just listen to your heart.
2007-01-28 18:43:15 · answer #3 · answered by Happily married 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am still in love with my ex. Funny we stay 5 min away from each other. It is very difficult I know. But it is not about your friends or hers. Its Just about you 2. First things first, be nice. Don't be jealous, that is the first sign of a breaking relationship. Just relax and trust. If you cant do that, then you 2 will end. My advice, stay positive, let her come to you, do not force the issue, because I did that and she moved on. Take it from me, do not ask her 100 questions otherwise you will drive her away. Remember girls are opposite to guys in almost everything.
2007-01-28 18:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by stephen b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your making this harder than this needs to be. I know you probably won't be able to believe this but . . . THERE ARE OTHER GIRLS IN THE WORLD!!!! Look, from one guy to another: I know that one girl might hold your heart, but the real question is: WHO IS GOING TO MAKE YOU THE HAPPIEST? If it's her, let her know that you don't like it when she talks to other guys (Although she has a right to do this if you are not together). If she respects your wishes, there might still be something left. If not, move on dude.
2007-01-28 18:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by Soundguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need more information on why you two are broken up. Honestly talk to her and say you want to be with her and want to understand why she wont let you be with her. Figure out what you need to do then. Email me if you want to continue this conversation. I'll also check back for updated notes and edit this post with more of an answer.
2007-01-28 18:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by rezruf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could you try talking to her honestly about your feelings and ask how you two can work this thing out?
2007-01-28 18:45:17 · answer #7 · answered by Dante 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
methink she is not crazy about u anymore . as u say she knows that she is ur world then wat makes her "talking" to anyone else.
u must approach her and ask her wat the matter is. ur problem is resolved if u just talk to her and know wat is causing the rift between both of u. tell her how much u love her and ur passion n possesiveness towards her. if she loves u she will fall for u or else lts her bad luck.
2007-01-28 18:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by roll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT must hurt she is talking to another male .
2007-01-28 18:40:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you walk up to him and kick him in the balls
2007-01-28 18:43:24 · answer #10 · answered by Cyrill sneer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋