should i tell him?should i sent him a letter?call him?or keep it to my self?he is a sexy man .he is married with 5 kids,i love them.
2007-01-28 18:16:46 · 17 answers · asked by angie w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First pray. You need to take these thoughts/feelings captive and make them obedient to Christ. Second don't approach him or tell him. Third strongly consider moving to a new church. If you were to approach him NOTHING good can come of it. This is very common. Instead of thinking of persuing him, instead examine what qualities he has (other than sexy) that draw you to him. Then file that as good information to have when you meet some other guy, so you know if he's the kind of guy you want to be with.
2007-01-28 18:22:25 · answer #1 · answered by Susan B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you need to let that one go. Married=COMPLETELY and TOTALLY off limits. I'm sure preacher man would tell you the same thing...no matter how much you like his kids. There are plenty of awesome guys out there who aren't married. Check em out!
2007-01-28 18:20:42 · answer #2 · answered by obliviona 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am afraid that what you are feeling is infactuation. You should keep this to yourself. he a happiliy married man and will only embarrass you when you tell him that. Hes a man of God and surely Loves his wife and kids. Its best to remain a friend and keep the other to yourself.
2007-01-28 18:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that when you read love thy neighbor that you keep in mind that it does not mean even if they are married. What you are feeling is not love cause love is patient, love is kind, love does not boast etc etc. If you truly love this man then you will leave him alone to pursue the life he has created with his loving wife and children.
2007-01-28 18:22:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not pursue this in anyway. Join or start a singles group in your church so that you may meet and take a liking to someone that is available. Should you try to pursue these feelings you will only hurt yourself, his wife, his kids, and his career.
Ask God to help you with these feelings, He will.
2007-01-28 18:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really think you should NOT tell him. Why would you want to ruin his marriage and who even has kids? You are not in love with him.
I really think that you should look for another church to go to and maybe seek some counseling. With morals that are being taught to you, why even think such a thing like that?
2007-01-28 18:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, don't tell him. Would you really expect a preacher to risk losing everything...his kids, his church, his wife on a fling? If you love him, don't even tempt him with a decision that would ruin that many lives.
2007-01-28 18:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by PeteyPablo 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
The answer is no unless you R in Oprah or unless U want to prove temptation on a married preacher can be done
2007-01-28 18:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by Tuxi X 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No.. That is not a good idea. You answered your own question.. He is married with children. You are putting yourself in a position to be hurt and embarrassed. Just let it go..
2007-01-28 18:21:30 · answer #9 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay as far away from this man as you can he will be nothing but treble. There are plenty of single man outher
2007-01-28 18:22:09 · answer #10 · answered by jose d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋