It has seemed like every time I have a girlfriend, girls flirting with me, asking me out, friends suddenly liking me, etc. increase ten times. To the point where one time, I use hugging my girlfriend while walking, and a girl I did not know came up and pinched my butt. Also once I had to turn down a good friend because I was dating another girl. Then a bunch of girls wanted group action from me saying I was cute. It is just so wierd. Like my mojo is turned on whenever I'm dating. Is there any reason to this?
2007-01-28 18:05:08 · 10 answers · asked by rezruf 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They see you in action with a girl when you are dating, and if they approve of how you treat that girl then they feel you are material worthy of themselves.
2007-01-28 18:09:46 · answer #1 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its because you are taken, forbidden fruit as it were. You see, when you are not dating and u are looking you tend to be kind of desperate and overly available. Not attractive. But when you are in a relationship you are very confident around other women and they love it. Plus they want what they cannot have. Because you are unavailable you are attractive. The same reason why diamonds are expensive, its not that there's something particularly special about a hard transparent stone. It's just because they are rare that they are worth anything.
2007-01-29 02:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the way it usually works with relationships, it never rains but it pours. Personally I am of the mind that when we are seeing someone and we are happy that this shines through on us for all the world to see. This glow is somehow a turn on to others and so they become or at least attempt to become a temptation to us. It is the same for both sexes equally when we have a partner there are lots of opportunities exposed to us. And trust me it doesn't get any easier as you age as it continues when you age also.
2007-01-29 02:11:33 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what it is, but it works that way on this end too. Maybe they are attracted to the way you treat your girl. Perhaps they see in you what good things your girlfriend brings out.
2007-01-29 02:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a very common phenomenon. It's 'cause you don't have a sex starved look on your face :)
Really. When you are dating you are more confident in what you do because you feel good about yourself. And chicks LOVE confident people. That is what they notice, even though it is very subconcious.
2007-01-29 02:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by Starguru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybey cuz dey want u to break up wit dat girl and make u go wit dem,of course for me i stay fly till i die =P lolz well yea dat dat thing,my couzin had dat problem
2007-01-29 02:10:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We just want to find out if we can get you away from your girlfriend.And you want what you can't have or how about this one ,what do you have that makes this woman want you we need to no.
2007-01-29 02:15:35 · answer #7 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be really handsome.
2007-01-29 02:10:32 · answer #8 · answered by Fleur 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
they get to know you better
2007-01-29 02:11:53 · answer #9 · answered by goodlionvic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe girlz like flirting with u dude...................
2007-01-29 02:13:15 · answer #10 · answered by *niki loves all god* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋