He is in his late 30s and I know he really likes me but has a girlfriend who he is denying from me... Anyway, we've been flirting for years now but never really had the chance to hook up. Now all I want to do is see if there's something there... We text and call each other up we even hangout so I can talk to him anytime... Please help...
2007-01-28 17:58:48 · 15 answers · asked by Stefani 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just mention that there's this really nice restaurant you want to go to, but that it'd be really awkward if went alone, so ask him if he wants come along, and offer to go dutch. If he's interested, he'll pursue you further. And, if he still denies being hooked up with some girlfriend, just believe him. You'll be able to tell eventually if he's two-timing you or just being honest.
2007-01-28 18:04:27 · answer #1 · answered by i♥sf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice..if he has a girlfriend who he is denying...then you should maybe, maaaaybe try to let it go. I know that is hard to do because your obviously attatched to him but, he's not playing fair and someone is going to end up hurt and that could very easily be you. If you get to hang out with him thats cool and all..so, I would just keep it at that until he is actually honest with you about his girlfriend situation. He may just be using you to feel better about possibly a bad relationship situation..like maybe hes bored with her or they fight a lot. You and him most likely wont get anywhere until he's single..and that may be a long time from now. You deserve a guy who can give you himself 100% and not keep you as the "side-line" girl. Beleive me...
good luck!
2007-01-29 02:06:31 · answer #2 · answered by Minty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he actually has a girlfriend, u may wanna stay away from him!! But if you wanna go for it, during your hanging out times, just bring up the idea of doing something casual together; like checking out a new restaurant that you have been dying to go but no one to go with..start from there and if he is really serious with you, don't worry, it will progress naturally!!
2007-01-29 02:07:40 · answer #3 · answered by goofy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are into getting hurt, don't ask him out. He is NOT available. If he decides to end his relationship with his current girlfriend then you can say something.Flirting is natural with outgoing people. But hooking up with someone who is already in a relationship is just asking for trouble. You may even lose his friendship. Is it worth losing him altogether for a date?
2007-01-29 02:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh, if he so easily is there for you seeing another lady, he will end up using you like the girl he is currently seeing. Just stay as friendships, and respect the other girl he is seeing. Wait till the relationship ends. Don't be a hoe
2007-01-29 02:02:59 · answer #5 · answered by danielschmidt94521 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him what his plans are for the weekend. If he says not much then ask him to catch a movie with you. If he's not sure then hes taken. He might have to check what his gf has planned first.
2007-01-29 02:05:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out for a coffee to start with
but dont fall into the trap of being the second woman!
you can do better
2007-01-29 02:05:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey there! remember that your the girl! no matter what happens just let him be the first! its not your lost! if that guy really has guts to tell you,then,let him! you just would not know what he'll be thinking if your gonna be the one who ask! probably, he'll take that for an advantage! now, be careful!
2007-01-29 02:11:25 · answer #8 · answered by archangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him if you know he likes you then it would make things easier for the two of you, i know i wouldn't mind if he tells you no it woud be b/c of the g/f issue so its a win win
2007-01-29 02:03:35 · answer #9 · answered by eg_the_mex_from_bryan_tex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for time , give him hint and then ask him based on the his reaction to the hint
2007-01-29 02:01:57 · answer #10 · answered by Naren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋