Guys Please Help- What Should I Do?

Question

MY BOYFRIENDS FRIENDS CHEAT ON THEIR GIRLFRIENDS WOULD MY BOYFRIEND CHEATON ME SINCE THEY DO?????
GUYS PLEASE ANSWER THIS- THANK YOU
MY BF IS 23 AND IM 27

Answer 1

I'm not a guy, but chances are - yes.
There's no real way to find out...(without hiring a private investigator) but it's better to drop it than having your heart broken.

You can't judge a book by it's cover, but you can judge what section it's in. He's surrounded by dirty books, chances are he's dirty too.

Let him go, he's not worth your time.

Answer 2

I would say NO (& not just b/c that's probably what you want to hear). There is absolutely nothing wrong with dating a younger guy as long as you're within 10 years it's all good - some people are more mature, etc. Anyway, most guys in their early 20's will cheat on their girlfriends but most guys in their early 20's would not have a relationship with an older girl because the guys that cheat are the guys that are only interested in physical relationships. You might just be afraid to trust him completely because you don't want to be that girl that everyone will say "how did you not see it coming? He's 23!" this is an understandable feeling b/c no one wants to be that girl but what if this is the time that that isn't the case and it is for real. You have to take chances in order to find the person you're supposed to be with. So, either talk to him or and/or decide to trust him and focus on your relationship with him because it is unique (every relationship is different) and no one else has the relationship that you two do.

Answer 3

Birds of a feather do flock together but, not all fly in the same direction. Look for the similarities in them and your boyfriend and just ask him to be honest with you. Try not to worry if there is anything going on then you will find out, maybe from one of his friends when they fall out because, your boyfriend probably told you about them cheating and promises you he's not like them, right? He could be sincere, though. I wouldn't tell on my friends if I thought they were capable of ratting me out too!

Answer 4

Just because they cheat does not mean that your boyfriend will. You should come straight out and ask him if he ever would. The old saying is "you're no better than the company you keep".

Answer 5

He's younger than you, so I'm inclined to believe he may want to fool around with younger girls. Most guys eventually do - they work down the ladder from higher age women (easier to attract) to lower age girls (harder to attract). And if he wholeheartedly condones what his friends do, likely he'll do the same, if the opportunity arises...

You might look for someone a couple years your senior, as it's harder for them to find women younger than you, the older they are.

Answer 6

wow. if youre dating a 23 year old then he's either really mature(in which case he probably wouldnt cheat on you), or you had a dry spell and he seemed really cool. but all that meaningless crap aside. whats HE like? ask yourself if he would do that. dont give a rats tail what his friends do but base your judgement on his actions.
not fair to him otherwise.

Answer 7

Well dear its depend on your boyfriends charters. What he thinks. It is not necessary that his friends cheated their girlfriends so he will also cheat you.

One more thing it’s also depends upon your relationship. How much you love each other.

Ok
So don’t worry

Enjoy

Take care,
God blasé you

Mahi

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Answer 8

Not necessarily my friends cheat all the time but I don't. Assuming your man has a mind of his own you shouldn't worry but bear in mind I don't know your man at all. So take my thoughts with a grain of salt. If you have doubt don't snoop ask and trust him. If you don't then maybe you have reason, deep down maybe you don't believe in your relationship, I dunno.

Answer 9

If you have to ask, then you already have trust issues. Time for a a few heart to heart talks, first with yourself, then with him.

Answer 10

birds of a feather fly together