What does it mean when..?
a guy is sometimes mean to you, stares at you all the time/ whenever you are around, tries to hit you with a volleyball, mumbles when talking to you, talks alot to your friends on the phone& not often to you(is he trynna make me jealous?), defends you, leaves his phone on your table, and etc.?? is it a sure sign of love or am i just mistakened...SERIOUSLY A SURE SIGN??
2007-01-28 17:52:48 · 23 answers · asked by Hehe. ;]] 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like a weirdo, stay away from him..
2007-01-28 17:58:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, i'm sure he is a bit interested. If youre a teenager, then..you have to know, guys in that age group are EXTREMELY immature when it comes to expressing their feelings when it comes to a lot of things(No offense any teen guys, for real)..especially to girls..theyre almost forced by their peers to feel embarrased for having feelings for a girl, so most often they will just tease you and be somewhat cruel in a flirty way until you actually get them alone and get to talking and then they feel more comfortable. This isnt to say all teen guys are like this..just the ones who are maturing a bit late. You gotta remember girls mature faster than MOST guys. If this game gets old hopefully you can find a guy who is in a more mature state and can just be cute, and sweet with out trying to impress any of his friends by being a d ick. .and isnt that worried about what people think of him! good luck..or maybe you just find a little bit older of a guy..as long as its a legal age difference. lol.
2007-01-29 02:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by Minty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm......A Difficult one there.Wait and see if he makes a move!!!
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2007-01-29 01:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by crazysalted 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is a sure sign that he wants you alright. He is waiting to go in for the kill i.e He is a one night stand kind of guy You know a Love em and leave em kind of guy. Not True Love. He will only make you think that you love him. He does that to all the girls and sometimes the Guys! Ouch!
2007-01-29 02:04:15 · answer #4 · answered by gary w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless the condition exists within you that you are interested in this person then i would suggest RUNNING and nothing else in the most opposite direction. for even if this is some sort of crush or attention getting scheme he obviously has little or no relationship skills and would very and probably hurtfully difficult to have any kind of relationship with. however if you do in fact like him and want to "try" something, as long as he is not violent, i would suggest a simple one on one convo starting with, whaz up wich chu?!
2007-01-29 02:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by jetatp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how old you are. If you are around 13 i'd say he likes you and is doing that lame...i'm too cool for you kind of thing. I think as you grow up the boys kind of grow out of that forced mean-ness stage if they like you and just talk to you...so depending on your age...i'd say yes it's a sure sign. Or he might just be a tool.
2007-01-29 01:56:59 · answer #6 · answered by K8tgry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my book it means this is a sign he is a real insecure prick.
I am reading between the lines you like this guy
well listen here, re-read your own message and think, do you need someone who is mean to you? who hits you with a ball? could you imagine what he would do once he feels more confident?
In sum, ignore the little prick, if he is for real he will change his strategy. If not, is time to walk away
Good Luck
2007-01-29 02:03:04 · answer #7 · answered by Mr 777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Man will ever be mean to you if he loves you! I believe he does such acts because he is simply trying to get your attention but this is the wrong way of going about it! You have to tell him that if he wants your attention then he's got to start showing you a lot more honor and respect! You can simply ask him why he is constantly acting out to get your attention. If he starts mumbling in his answer that means even know his acts are very straight forward in getting your attention, he can't face you because he likes you. So, know your in control of the situation! Tell him that "a real man doesn't mumble but is honest and shows love and respect to woman that they want there complete attention". Next because you know what true love isn't, you must know what true Love is, The Bible says: *“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth. Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes always perseveres.” (1 Corinthians 13:4-6,7). Next, How do you find True love like that of a Soul Mate? Think about my five biblical principles for finding your soul mate: Ask yourself:
1. Does he love you for who you are (inside first than out)? The Bible says: *“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-6
2. Does he honor you? Will he do things just to make you happy? Will he/she try some of the things you are interested in or maybe shares some of the same interests and hobbies? The Bible says:
* “Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.” Romans 12:10
3. Cherishes your body, mind and soul? Doesn't go to far on these things until your ready? The Bible says: * “Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet Spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.” 1 Peter 3:3-4
4. You trust him to the fullest? He is your best friend and you are his or hers? The Bible Says: * “ Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes always perseveres.” 1 Corinthians 13:7
5. You communicate well? He understands you like he could be your twin? The Bible says: * “ Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful, that it may benefit those who listen.” Ephesians 4:29
To Sum it up: Stick to 1. Love 2. Honor 3. Cherish 4. Trust 5. Communication and I promise if your relationship is based on these things you will know what its like to find true love! And Yes! I have used my principles myself and I am convinced I have found my soul mate! But to find her I also used these same principles to weed out my soul mate from the relationships that just didn't work. In addition, letting God and Jesus Christ lead your heart, mind, body and soul also aid in the weeding process.God Bless!
2007-01-29 02:15:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know for sure but one thing that I do know that if that guy is really like you he WOULDN'T try to hit you with a volleyball...
2007-01-29 02:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by AY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if it could be the way he shows love if you are uncomfortable with it leave him and get one who can express it in a better way.If am loved i expect my boyfriend to treat me with respect in front of my friends.Not to ignore me unless he doesnt want people to know there is something between us.He could be interested in one of your friends but is failing to tell you.
2007-01-29 02:00:29 · answer #10 · answered by jus-tus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a guy who doesn't know what he wants or who he is. He definitely likes you but it appears to me that he doesn't know how to be intimate or express his emotions. You can do one of two things.... be patient with him and try to be understanding or dump him quick and move on before he is so attached that it breaks his heart when you finally do.
2007-01-29 01:59:58 · answer #11 · answered by mazaker2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋