Where are they??? good mature men over 24 where do you hang out???

Question

OK I'm 21 and my fiance just dumped me saying that our goals were too different right now. So anyways I don't have any friend right now so going clubbing wouldn't work but I've decided I want a man!! Someone older!!! Where is a good place to find a good man preferable 25 and over???

Answer 1

At a gay bar!!!


... sad I know!!!

Answer 2

You're not likely to find a "good" man in a bar or nightclub anyway. The right man will come to you just as soon as you have become the kind of woman that the type of man that you desire is looking for. Take care of yourself - meaning, an education your health etc. Don't be shallow by focusing too much on your appearance. Take a class or find a hobby that suits YOU. A man who has common goals is likely to be there. Don't want or need a man too much. Desperation leads to bad decisions. The age of a man does not determine his character. A 21 year old man can be more mature than a man in his thirties or forties. Still it is good advice to say -stay away from men that are much older than you. An older man that wants to date a young woman usually desires power and control -not an equal relationship.

Answer 3

Three questions:
1) What was different about your goals?
2) You have no friends or no single friends?
3) Why do you want an older man?

You shouldn't be going out of your way to look for a guy...it'll happen when you least expect it, as long as you're confident in yourself and who you are, which you should be since you've obviously been in a committed relationship before.

Answer 4

hey whats the rush? i do agree that if you had diff goals and you couldnt resolve them then parting ways is best. anyway, clubs are no place to meet mature guys. i used to go to em and long-lasting solid relationships were the last thing on my mind. but anywhere you look you can find them. try the gym or at work like most people. and just enjoy every step of it once you find someone. take your time and smell the roses. you mos def have the time.

Answer 5

Well I'm 44 so you probably aren't really interested.
Also, I live in Australia, and I'm a shift worker.

BUT-
In general, you are unlikely to find anyone "serious" if you go clubbing. And in the older category, you see men who are trying to hold on to their youth (and usually failing).

SO-
Join social clubs. Go to music concerts. Make a list of the things YOU like to do, and see if there are men at these events.

And if you get really desperate, drop me a line ; )

Answer 6

I'm an outgoing, sociable girl, & I didn't have trouble getting dates before, I just had a hard time finding the right guy . . . until I met my current boyfriend of two & a half years on Yahoo Personals. Maybe it could work for you. Good Luck!

Answer 7

Define a "Good Man"...
Good looking...go to the gym
Intelligent....book store or collage campus
Out doorsman...look outdoors
go wherever the type of man you want to attract would be.

Answer 8

i have been thinking about going to the gym to meet women, I'm a 25 yr old guy and i cant find any women any where

Answer 9

Dont go to find a man.That is why you get dumped.Go on with your everday life and the right man will find you.

Answer 10

Right here...right here. I have a house built last year 2006, 2005 impala, I am finacially and mentally stable. :-)
I am in California ;-) I hang out at bookstores buying puzzles and books for my students.

Answer 11

I hang out at coffeehouses