I have been a coxin for my college mens rowing team this year. i'm the only girl, all the guys are like my brothers. (in the past on drunken nights I have kissed 3 of them) It's discouraged that the coxins and rowers have relationships or hook up for fear of someone quitting so u have 2 keep it cool.
The best rower on my team who's like my brother kissed me after a night out on friday and we did alot of kissing and talking until we fell asleep. It was perfect. He got to me that night.
Unlike the others he kept it a secret, no teammates knows. The problem is the kiss happened saturday at like 1:30 - 5:30 am and I see him every day at pratice and races but he hasn't made an attempt 2 hang out with me since. He is really serious about rowing though and I would NEVER EVER get in the way of that.
Think I should just drop it and going back like nothing happened, or wait for him to make his mind up. I just don't want to get 2 caught up in him and get my heart broken. What do u think?
2007-01-28 17:31:22 · 6 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he has imed me a few times about everyday stuff...
I just wonder why ha hasn't come to see me alone when i live 2 floors below him
2007-01-28 17:31:54 · update #1
I like that you're familiar with the Greg Berhendt term "he's just not that into you".
I think that if he really is into you then he will make it clear that he is. He will go the extra mile to talk to you and be with you.
I would wait it out and leave the ball in his court. Or the row in his water. Anyway, if nothing happens then you can ask him what's up, but I'm pretty sure you already know the answer. He probably sees you as a friend since he confides the every day stuff with you. He may not want to get serious while he persues rowing. If it's meant to be, it'll happen. Don't force it to though. Then you'll come off as clingy or needy.
Enjoy the friendship above all else!
2007-01-28 17:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell you that he's into you or not into you because it's hard to tell, but I think you definitely shouldn't dwell on it and wait on him. You're probably still "high" from the night you shared together. Put your feet back down on the ground and carry on with indifference. Try to consider it merely a very nice date and nothing more. With time and patience, you will have your answer. If he really likes you and wants to know you better, he'll let you know. If that happens, at that time, you can decide whether or not you feel the same. Hope this helps.
2007-01-29 01:49:01 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he feels ashamed of it. He felt that he took advantage of you while you were drunk or something. He feel really guilty. Talk to him about it, then he would feel better
2007-01-29 01:39:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do women always think a kiss means something? he just wanted some a**
2007-01-29 01:35:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he doesn't want some one who gets drunk and kisses just anybody
2007-01-29 01:38:16 · answer #5 · answered by hiding1959 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just **** him
2007-01-29 01:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋